hurtnomorerika Posted September 12, 2013 Posted September 12, 2013 It's crazy, but with everything he's done throughout the pregnancy, I'm still missing him. I will NEVER get involved with him romantically again. I would really be a fool if I did. I'm not seeing anyone and I havent been intimate with no one else but him. He stopped coming around at the beginning of my pregnancy. I miss the way he would touch me and make love to me. He made me feel something I hadn't felt in a long time. Then, he just cut it off after almost 2 years. I think I'm just lonely and miss the affection of a man. This hurts so bad.
tiernan Posted September 12, 2013 Posted September 12, 2013 I am so sorry for you. Why did he leave you when pregnant? Did he come back to his wife?
Author hurtnomorerika Posted September 12, 2013 Author Posted September 12, 2013 I am so sorry for you. Why did he leave you when pregnant? Did he come back to his wife? Yes, he is with his wife. To this day, I don't know why he left. I'm guessing the fear of him having to man up and everything coming out. My mother says he is just scared.
tiernan Posted September 12, 2013 Posted September 12, 2013 His wife needs to know. I was pregnant with my exmm, but I had a miscarriage. I was devastated then. But in the light of what has happened just now I actually should be happy. Tell his wife immediately. And he is a monster for leaving you. But I guess you already know. Take good care.
whichwayisup Posted September 12, 2013 Posted September 12, 2013 It's crazy, but with everything he's done throughout the pregnancy, I'm still missing him. I will NEVER get involved with him romantically again. I would really be a fool if I did. I'm not seeing anyone and I havent been intimate with no one else but him. He stopped coming around at the beginning of my pregnancy. I miss the way he would touch me and make love to me. He made me feel something I hadn't felt in a long time. Then, he just cut it off after almost 2 years. I think I'm just lonely and miss the affection of a man. This hurts so bad. Stop reminiscing about him! The past is in the past. Allowing yourself to 'go' there and remember how he made you feel, reaching backwards like this IS preventing you from letting go and accepting that he IS a dickwad and that your A is over. Focus on your beautiful baby daughter (congrats!) and enjoy this time with her. You don't "need" a man, you have family and friends. A newborn who needs you and loves you. I get that you're lonely at times but all you have to do is look into your daughters eyes and feel that love. Change your way of thinking and put thoughts of him out of your head. Get into the habit of pushing thoughts away. Takes 21 days to break a habit! 1
couldhavebeen Posted September 12, 2013 Posted September 12, 2013 We have the same situation... I'm also pregnant 5th month now... and all he can say to me was... I'm sorry! So, I just took that as the end of our affair. I want to have this baby with or without him. Eventhough I missed him til now, I can't risk getting stress for the baby. Congrats on ur baby girl =)
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