Natalie Posted November 19, 2004 Posted November 19, 2004 What would you do if a month after your boyfriend's birthday and 2 weeks before your birthday, you would discover a gift bag in the car trunk that has "I love you, be mine" printed all over it?! Would you go and check it out or would you leave it as it is and just wait until it's your birthday.
tattoomytoe Posted November 19, 2004 Posted November 19, 2004 i would wait....i have peeked before and it riuns things!
Queen B Posted November 19, 2004 Posted November 19, 2004 I'd wait... but then again I like surprises on my birthday If you don't get a gift bag that says "I love you, be mine" printed all over it then you might have a problem.
GirlDown Posted November 19, 2004 Posted November 19, 2004 what is the significance of his birthday being a month ago? if you're indicating that this may be a gift to him from someone else, i could see your curiosity...but you don't seem suspicious or angry... if you're getting at whether you should snoop and see if it's for you from him, then i wouldn't do it. that would piss me off if someone did that to me. however, you didn't say if its your trunk or his. if it's yours, then there's a reason it's in there.
Author Natalie Posted November 19, 2004 Author Posted November 19, 2004 hello...thankx for the replies First of all, it wasn't meant for me. I found that last night. Today is my birthday by the way. He said that he went shopping for a gift the day before yesterday, that's why I couldn't go with him. He slipped his tongue. He actually said: "If you go buy a gift........." and I looked at him and he realized he got busted. So my lights came on...my birthday is the only one in the family and friends circle that is due. So if he went shopping that day for my gift, so whose gift is that in the car trunk (his car by the way, but we both drive in it). Still, I was calm and thought: "Oh well, maybe I get two gifts!" Last night (the night before my actual birthday) he came up with the same bag. I felt relieved. I thought: "Oh, stupid me, how can I doubt my sweetheart." He said to me with a smile: "This is for your birthday, but didn't give me the bag, instead he pulled out some other stuff out, including 2 Mexican Mariachi dolls and put them on the dresser. My mouth went open. I thought: "It wasn't for me?! Huh?! If it were, why did he open it himself?" So it was for him!!! So again my next question was: "Who did he get it from?" Wouldn't you be asking the same question? His explanation: He wanted to pull a joke on me. He bought the dolls a while ago. He never brought them up because he wanted to pull this joke on me. That's why he put it in a bag (he would use any bag, but it happened so that this one had those "I love yous printed on it"), which he found in the car, (I can't remember seeing a bag like that before in the car). He has no receipts for his purchase either. My question here: "Do you see a joke here? Am I supposed to laugh? If yes, I'm still waiting to laugh." Should I believe him or give him the benefit of the doubt, since there is no other option.
GirlDown Posted November 19, 2004 Posted November 19, 2004 wow not only is this not only close to a resembling a joke...it makes no sense at all. tell him to get horny, come over ready, and take his pants off. then, when you are "going down on him", say hahahaha just kidding. get out" this guy is a moron for thinking you would believe this. and i hope you don't...
lilmoma1973 Posted November 21, 2004 Posted November 21, 2004 im sorry natalie but it doesn't take a rocket scientist to see that this was his bday gift from a woman !! how stupid does he think you are it was a joke come on he could have come up with a better excuse.. he is so busted and he is a loser and you need to move on...
DayumQuitPlayin Posted November 21, 2004 Posted November 21, 2004 Originally posted by GirlDown tell him to get horny, come over ready, and take his pants off. then, when you are "going down on him", say hahahaha just kidding. get out" LOL... that's funny Yea.. I Second that suggestion.... Do IT!
Author Natalie Posted November 22, 2004 Author Posted November 22, 2004 That's a good one Girldown! I would never think of that one myself and I will definitely try that one tonight. Don't worry guys, I didn't believe his crap. Even if I would, let's say, forget about the question where he got the bag from. Say he found it reaaally in the car. This joke still didn't make sense to me. It was a bad thought out plan for bringing up his present. But if you think this was all...no it's not! The morning of my birthday he gave me MY present (so to speak). First of all, he slipped a box between my sheets while I was still lying in bed. I heard the noise it made, I knew it was something like that, but I didn't look, because if it were for my gift, he would at least have the decency to give it to me in my hand. Come one...you don't give someone a present by just putting it on a desk or anything and without mentioning anything? So next thing he said was, "So you don't want it? That means I have to return it." So I was like, "Want what?" Then I saw the gift and I said: "Ooooh, this! This IS MINE????" He said yes. I opened it, it was a 18K golden ring. So I asked him to put it on. He put it on my wedding finger. I was stunned? And of course, all you guys are now like....Oooooooh, that's so sweet!? SNAP OUT OF IT! When I asked him, "Why on my wedding finger?" He didn't answer. So here I am with a ring on my wedding finger. Is this a birthday present? Yes? Why on my wedding finger? No? Does it mean, I'm engaged? But how come he's not saying anything? Why does he have to do this whole joke show before? Is that the way to propose? So what about at least a little romance. OR?? Is this just his way to an escape? Would he just say that to keep my mind of the "joke?" But that's not nice. Sending mixed signals is just not the right thing to do, especially when I'm 5 months pregnant. So lilmona1973, I cannot move on yet. I have a long way to go before I can do that.
Karina Posted November 23, 2004 Posted November 23, 2004 Natalie you just asked that question the same way I would of asked it with out trying to seem like im really going crazy about this whole situation. YOur obviously doubting him which leads me to when you were sayin you dont remember seeing the bag ever in your car, or him not haveing a recipt for his purcheses. Your more than obviously doubting that the bag with the I LOVE YOUS all over it, isnt a good bag. Has he ever cheated on you before? gave you any reason to think he might be? Karina
Karina Posted November 23, 2004 Posted November 23, 2004 I realized I have more to say. he was putting a ring on your finger, especialy your weddingfinger, I would be like. UMMMM ARE YOU ASKING ME TO MARRY YOU? I wouldnt just be like"oooook, hmmmmmmmmm" all to myself. How old is he. Putting the present under the sheets seemed kinda weird to me too. He obviously doesnt know how to confront this whole situation so he leaves you to do it on your own. Like get the box, open it, and have you tell him to put in on your finger. Maybe your the only one who wants to get married if thats what you've lead him to believe. But im kinda sure your feeling so weird out by his actions that your second doubting it too. Put it out there. Let him know whats on your mind. Straight up. And if you have to leave him to make sure he actualy loves you(since theres a baby involved) than do it. He'll come back if he really wants to be there. Karina
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