ConfusedHumanBeing Posted September 12, 2013 Posted September 12, 2013 Whats up LS? I hope everyone on here is having a good Wednesday. To us American people, a day that many of us will not forget. 12 years already? Crazy. I was in my Spanish class in High School when it happened. I had NO idea what was going on....just saw people crying and hugging eachother. Such a hectic time in our history, so today stands for something pretty deep. ANYWAYS, I figured this could be something positive to new users. I've noticed a lot of you are having a hard time letting go and are often questioning if you will ever get over it. I've been there believe me. Its approaching a full year now, and I still think about her from time to time, but I've done SO much better than I was. Moved away, started a new life....everything is good. I graduated with my masters a year ago, so I NEVER check my school e-mail, but had some random urge to do it today. When I get in there, I see a e-mail from my ex written (wrote?) yesterday morning. Ohhh god....what could she possibly tell me? Is she sorry? Is she curious? Is she happy?...... You know what i did? I deleted that son of a b**** without reading it. Yep....I found strength I didnt think was there a year ago. Its amazing what time does. I'm I curious to what she wrote? Yes, of course. I've made progress that I'm proud of and reading that would set me back. Dont want it, dont need it, and neither do you. Moral of the story: Keep moving forward. Time DOES in fact heal wounds. Keep pushing forward and dont look back! 11
JDPT Posted September 12, 2013 Posted September 12, 2013 Kudos to you Sir, nicely executed. May you continue to lead by example and pave the way. *thumbs up*
Waz Posted September 12, 2013 Posted September 12, 2013 You Sir are my hero. Well done with the bitch oh and congrats for your achievements.
barky2 Posted September 12, 2013 Posted September 12, 2013 Yup, I was in English class...never forget it Oh and good job bro. Barky
StyleOnEm Posted September 12, 2013 Posted September 12, 2013 You are a man among boys. We bow to you gracefully.
Hoaks Posted September 12, 2013 Posted September 12, 2013 Wow, very strong, well done. I would HAVE to know what it said if it was my ex, I'm still to weak though lol.
Author ConfusedHumanBeing Posted September 12, 2013 Author Posted September 12, 2013 Anything is possible if you believe in the cause hard enough. If you REALLY want to stop feeling like crap about this and REALLY want to move forward, all it takes is some determination. I want to read it just to see what it says because I'm nosey as hell....but why bother? The end result is the same. I previewed it before deleted it (small thumbnail that shows you whats IN the email but not the actual e-mail) and I saw it was a LONG e-mail. Probably "yeah hi...I'm sorry for everything....hope youre doing well...Im okay....blah blah blah blah blah" whatever else it says. Why deal with any of that? Why put yourself through that again?! Thats what myself and the rest of us are trying to tell some of you when you want to reach out so bad. All it does is re-open wounds that dont need to be open. Go out and LIVE life. I promise you most of you will regret the time wasted on all of this worrying, stressing, pit in your stomach crap. 1
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