kobeparker939 Posted September 12, 2013 Posted September 12, 2013 Hi All, First time post, have seen how helpful you all are, hopefully you guys can assist with this Okay I'm going to TRY to keep this brief. Basically dated this girl for a few months, she had a notoriously bad rep, but I decided to give her a chance and judge her for myself. Whilst dating noticed a few flags came up (i.e her ex was still listed in a r/ship with her on fb) which she assured me was nothing/stupid even though she never went into detail. I didnt feel as though it was my place to interrogate. She then had to fly interstate and stated her friends would drive her to the airport after I'd asked if she needed a ride. I find out through my friend who works with her ex that the ex had mentioned that he gave her a ride to the airport. I was angry about the lying not so much the ex driving her. Anyway, brought this up with her and vehemently denied this, got angry , said she felt like she was being monitored etc then cut me off for a month. Then out of nowhere she msged the other day stating she was really sorry for the way she reacted, hoped we cd reconnect and then went on to thank me for the time we shared together even tho she knew there was a possibility that id never respond. Should I give her a second chance? I'm 50/50 down the line atm. Have no idea what to do. I really got along with this girl on a deeper level than girls in the past, but can a leopard every change its spots? Please help!
CherryT Posted September 12, 2013 Posted September 12, 2013 I wouldn't. She's already shown that she can't be trusted. I hate games and the first sign of them, I'm the first one out. You have every right to ask why a girl you're dating is being displayed as still being in a relationship. I'm not one to care for social media, but that one is just weird. If you're looking for someone who you can trust, I wouldn't go back. She's already proven to you that she doesn't mind lying... whether it's something big or small (like a ride to the airport).
HappyLove Posted September 12, 2013 Posted September 12, 2013 “When people show you who they are, believe them the first time."~Dr Maya Angelou 4
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