tart6245 Posted September 12, 2013 Posted September 12, 2013 My ex is starting to talk to me again. For the past few night, she's been snap chatting me things she's doing that we used to do together... this is kind of odd. We dated for 2.5 years and broke up due to distance when I went to law school 600 miles away after being faced with 3 years of long distance. I'm graduating in May though and can move anywhere. We went NC for about 8 months and then had a good conversation and have stayed in touch ever since. We've both dated others since the breakup, but we are both single now. I'm not sure if she's just going through a difficult period and is just reminiscing or what. It's....interesting though. I've responded to her since I have moved on and gotten over us, but I still care for her and want her to be happy.
im_thedude Posted September 12, 2013 Posted September 12, 2013 I see it as, her dating ventures fell flat after being with you, and she's trying to spark up her old flame. Seems like you drowned the fire long ago and it's good that you told her that.
Author tart6245 Posted September 12, 2013 Author Posted September 12, 2013 I see it as, her dating ventures fell flat after being with you, and she's trying to spark up her old flame. Seems like you drowned the fire long ago and it's good that you told her that. I didn't tell her that tonight, but I mean, I think she knows I have been seeing other people. But I have also told her in the past I still care for her and want nothing but the best for her, regardless of who its with, and I mean that, she was very special to me and still is in some respects. Our breakup was not awful and we both handled it pretty maturely given how some others go, as I have experienced since her. No idea if she knows I am just recently single again though after I blew up at my FWB. She may be reaching out or maybe she just wanted to touch base. She's abroad in Argentina now. I'm kind of happy because I am visiting the city where she lives in a month to see my best friend, and I was worried I may end up seeing her... and I'd hate for us to have done something I'd later regret.
Balzac Posted September 12, 2013 Posted September 12, 2013 I'm kidding-but she may think that newly minted law grads are all about to reap riches. Your statement about relocating anywhere implies youve not yet accepted an offer.
Author tart6245 Posted September 12, 2013 Author Posted September 12, 2013 I'm kidding-but she may think that newly minted law grads are all about to reap riches. Your statement about relocating anywhere implies youve not yet accepted an offer. Lol...... could be, but her family has plenty of money, so I don't think she's considering that. It was just odd... that she randomly started bringing up our past through pictures while on her semester abroad. Who knows with her.
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