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Hi all,

 

I just thought I'd come check in and give a quick update because I see so many people posting the exact same way I was earlier this year. Believe me, if you haven't seen things from me before, I believed wholeheartedly that my life was over when my fiance left me (for the 3rd time, by the way) and that I could never move on let alone have feelings for someone again. He'd hurt me again and again and again, but I was still convinced that he was IT. He was my one and only shot at happiness, or so I thought.

 

I just wanted to come back and say that, though I'm not completely there yet 100%, things WILL get better. I've done a lot of work to get there, but time is huge. Time and NC (and I fought that one tooth and nail for months) are your best friends. Books, friends, work, things you love, too.

 

I'll admit that some moments are tough. Months later, I still have trouble falling asleep alone. His birthday will be tough. Holidays that he'd spent with my family in the past, too.

 

However...I have a new job. I have a new life. I've been working hard at becoming the person I want to be. It hurts like hell along the way, but it's possible. I promise.

 

Much love, everyone.

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