stormer1092 Posted September 11, 2013 Posted September 11, 2013 I got a few random "i hate you" texts from my ex the past few days and I have no Idea what I did. I'm no contact, i haven't done anything to make her mad? She's the one who dumped me? I mean she's the one who left me for another taste. Like wtf? Any1 else ever have this? They didn't hurt me at all because I know she's an impulse texter.
Atem Posted September 11, 2013 Posted September 11, 2013 delete find a hotter girl go out with here take it from there nuff said
hotpotato Posted September 11, 2013 Posted September 11, 2013 Is your ex mentally unbalanced? Kinda sounds like it...
Author stormer1092 Posted September 11, 2013 Author Posted September 11, 2013 Wow, what a jerk! Keep your chin up and ignore them. Sorry you have to deal with that. Remember, there's always an option to change your number. Eh it doesn't bother me. I've been called worse. But I actually kinda find something almost comical about it. Like she left me for someone and now I KNOW she's even less happy then before. Confirmed by her sister
Author stormer1092 Posted September 11, 2013 Author Posted September 11, 2013 Is your ex mentally unbalanced? Kinda sounds like it... Lol I'm beginning to think so... No1 knows what the hell she's going through even her family.
petall Posted September 12, 2013 Posted September 12, 2013 It's just an obvious ruse to provoke a reaction. Like she's expecting you to reply "Why?". 2
barky2 Posted September 12, 2013 Posted September 12, 2013 Laugh it off, I would. ^^^^ exactly what I was going to say. At least laught at how now, ignoring her is driving her even more insane. Barky 2
JDPT Posted September 12, 2013 Posted September 12, 2013 ^^^^ exactly what I was going to say. At least laught at how now, ignoring her is driving her even more insane. Barky I would honestly get such a kick out of my ex randomly texting "I hate you!" In my mind I would probably say "well thank you...." LOL
barky2 Posted September 12, 2013 Posted September 12, 2013 Omg id die laughing. Idk if id even respond..id love to hear the next one that comes thru haha Barky 1
RiceaRoni Posted September 12, 2013 Posted September 12, 2013 She realizes She's messed up by breaking it off with you so instead of trying to apologize and get you back, and to hide her feelings. She lashes out in a bitter way. So she doesn't have to lower her pride into saying she made a mistake. My first ex did the same thing. Think nothing of it. Ignore and keep moving forward. 1
Sugarkane Posted September 12, 2013 Posted September 12, 2013 I've had a dumper beg me back, then stand me up and never meet me. Then send a series of abusive text messages to me and brag about how much better their life was without me. Is your ex as bad as this?
Author stormer1092 Posted September 12, 2013 Author Posted September 12, 2013 I've had a dumper beg me back, then stand me up and never meet me. Then send a series of abusive text messages to me and brag about how much better their life was without me. Is your ex as bad as this? No she never begged me at all.
Author stormer1092 Posted September 12, 2013 Author Posted September 12, 2013 She realizes She's messed up by breaking it off with you so instead of trying to apologize and get you back, and to hide her feelings. She lashes out in a bitter way. So she doesn't have to lower her pride into saying she made a mistake. My first ex did the same thing. Think nothing of it. Ignore and keep moving forward. Its hard because I do miss her a lot. But she hurt me in many ways. Part of me wants her back but part of me is afraid of getting hurt again.
RiceaRoni Posted September 12, 2013 Posted September 12, 2013 Its hard because I do miss her a lot. But she hurt me in many ways. Part of me wants her back but part of me is afraid of getting hurt again. I understand how you feel. Yet someone who truly loves you doesn't do something like this. You deserve far better dear. Sending hate messages may be a cover up for showing that she knows she messed up, but even knowing she made a mistake...if there was true love there she'd lower her pride to admit to that mistake. Rather instead she does this to you. You must let yourself heal. Let her go. Ignore her hate messages. Let yourself heal so that a better woman can find you. One that'll treat you better and be able to admit to her mistakes instead of letting pride get in the way. It's understandable a part of you still wants her. You care for her and you both had somthing, but her hurting you isnt okay either. 1
stillafool Posted September 12, 2013 Posted September 12, 2013 Stormer I think you should block all contact from/with her in order to heal and get over her. It does you no good to hear from her in any way. It will be much easier if you hear and no nothing about what's going on in her life at this point.
Author stormer1092 Posted September 12, 2013 Author Posted September 12, 2013 Stormer I think you should block all contact from/with her in order to heal and get over her. It does you no good to hear from her in any way. It will be much easier if you hear and no nothing about what's going on in her life at this point. I'm doing better and better every day. This stuff doesn't bother me anymore. I don't really know anything about whats she's doing either. Only time will tell whats going to happen now. Time is the key.
crederer Posted September 12, 2013 Posted September 12, 2013 I had something similar happen. Ex gf cheated on me, I dumped her. Then she heard I was dating someone else and sent me a bunch of vile texts. I just told her "if you didn't cheat on me we'd still be together. Now I have someone who treats me right. You made your bed" Then she threatened to kill my gf and things got messy but that's a whole other story.
Author stormer1092 Posted September 12, 2013 Author Posted September 12, 2013 I had something similar happen. Ex gf cheated on me, I dumped her. Then she heard I was dating someone else and sent me a bunch of vile texts. I just told her "if you didn't cheat on me we'd still be together. Now I have someone who treats me right. You made your bed" Then she threatened to kill my gf and things got messy but that's a whole other story. Hmmm Its like they take us to much for granted. Like we are going to stay by them no matter what they do.
aliveagain Posted September 12, 2013 Posted September 12, 2013 The grass is never greener. Don't even think of taking her back, the girl is tainted, remember your the prize not her. You dogged a bullet don't waste this opportunity to find someone really special, someone you won't have to question the paternity of your children with. 2
barky2 Posted September 12, 2013 Posted September 12, 2013 The grass is never greener. Don't even think of taking her back, the girl is tainted, remember your the prize not her. You dogged a bullet don't waste this opportunity to find someone really special, someone you won't have to question the paternity of your children with. This x a million. 1
Author stormer1092 Posted September 15, 2013 Author Posted September 15, 2013 I understand how you feel. Yet someone who truly loves you doesn't do something like this. You deserve far better dear. Sending hate messages may be a cover up for showing that she knows she messed up, but even knowing she made a mistake...if there was true love there she'd lower her pride to admit to that mistake. Rather instead she does this to you. You must let yourself heal. Let her go. Ignore her hate messages. Let yourself heal so that a better woman can find you. One that'll treat you better and be able to admit to her mistakes instead of letting pride get in the way. It's understandable a part of you still wants her. You care for her and you both had somthing, but her hurting you isnt okay either. I think her immaturity has a lot to do with it.
JDPT Posted September 17, 2013 Posted September 17, 2013 "Who is this?" (Kidding. Ignore) I kind of like this one but I'm still of the opinion that some things are better left unsaid.
candie13 Posted September 17, 2013 Posted September 17, 2013 her doing that shows two things: 1. that she obviously still cares and 2. that she is very immature and has no idea how to handle the situation. I hate you messages don't hurt the receiver, plain indifference does. Moving on and being happy does. I'd keep no contact until she calms down. Actually, I'd keep no contact after that too. 1
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