noumenon Posted September 11, 2013 Posted September 11, 2013 Does she playing with me? Hi She told me "i like you too" when i said "i like you" after 1 MONTHS we met. And at this night she told me "take things slow" also, and as i knew that she has short term boyfriend. After this night, we flirted for 2 MONTHS and the other guy is very absent, she was like she has no boyfriend. She is staying at home alone, go somewhere alone, spends her time alone... or with me. The guy is nowhere. We go out with her every week, we were having good times, laughing, flirting... talking like "what will we be in the future?, can we stay like friends or be lovers?"... we are close friends (flirting) that she can call me home and want me to massage her when she was having a backache, even we went to vacation with her and her friends. It's very obvious that she likes to be with me. But in vacation, when i was drunk, i told her like "why do you looking at me like that, what are we going to be?"... i think i pushed her a little bit, and she got angry, she told that "i don't want to talk with you, i am battling with your emotions, i think it's better to stay away for a while". After this day, i told her i just want to talk, she said no but after that, she wanted me to write my feelings on e-mail... I written that "sorry i just not wanted to push you, i accept that do everything in a way you like to or how you want it, slow,fast or not be a lover with me but i must say I LOVE YOU, this happened just because of my intense feelings". After she read this note, she started to STAY AWAY from me!... no eye contact, no talking, no going out with me... and she did it 2 weeks.... then we talked!... She told me that "you got me angry, you messed up everything, just suppress your "UNRETURNED" feelings and if you do that we can be friends"... and shot me in the face!...and "WE DONT KNOW WHAT WILL HAPPEN IN THE FUTURE, maybe things can change LATER"... I don't believe that kind of thing can make her EXTREMELY angry like throw me out like a thrash... i think there is a different story behind her. The question is, why is she tries to SUPPRESS my feelings by staying away??? Does she really does not love me at all, or not want to be in a relationship with me? Or want me to be her backup, take things too slow? is 2 MONTHS too FAST?? I am extremely confused I would appreciate any help Thank you very much.
Dallers Posted September 11, 2013 Posted September 11, 2013 She is messing with you my man! I do not see friend-zone here I see games being played! Games I tells you! GAMES! Quite complicated to work out what is going on really by the way you write, but screaming I love you at someone who you are not really going out with could have possibly caused the whole "STAY AWAY from me!" thing to happen, just a thought. I would try to stay on something soft like wine or beer in the future, multiple jagerbombs directly into the nearest artery is not a good look.
Author noumenon Posted September 11, 2013 Author Posted September 11, 2013 Thanks for the reply buddy the thing that confuses me most is why is she trying to "suppress" my "love" feelings after she flirted me and told me that "i like you too"? Is 2 Months too fast to shift from "Like" to "Love" ? may be she changed her mind, or want me in "HOLD" and waiting for something else from someone... or playing GAMES with me
Dallers Posted September 11, 2013 Posted September 11, 2013 Games. I assume you are quite young, this kind of thing happens. A lot! Especially if your hanging around with some party animals. Even so yes from your story above to use the L word in the way you did after you had a fight, big no no. You live and learn. Take it slower with your next one It sounds as though you got luck to escape from this one though, count your chickens.
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