vtred Posted September 11, 2013 Posted September 11, 2013 So, I have to attend a birthday party of a colleague tomorrow and my ex is definitely going to be there. I like my colleague and all his other friends and do not want to lose touch with them. To give a brief background, I (M27) broke up with my GF(27) (who was initially an FWB) and have been NC for about 3 months. Basically, she had severe GIGS and started dating someone else just like she had started dating me after her previous Ex (Why are there so many of these people?). Anyhow, so i was ruined but thank god for NC that i am much better. I do think about her sometimes but emotions can now be controlled. But honestly I don't think i am completely over her. What i want to do is go to the party say hi to her if she says hi and then just ignore her and catch up with other friends. I won't tell her how I've been and won't ask her anything either. Nothing more than a Hi and I will leave the party soon before i get 2 drunk My questions are: Is this a good idea? Should i go to the party? will i be breaking NC and would i return to day zero when i was completely shattered? (Please note that i really do not want to upset my colleague and his other friends who I haven't met in a while and are gr8 acquaintances as well)
TrblinMN Posted September 11, 2013 Posted September 11, 2013 You have 2 options. Don't go or put on a very happy face and be happy for her. Tell her that you wish her the best and keep the convo short. And don't talk to her for the rest of the night and keep that happy face on. It will drive her nuts and you will better knowing that you took the high road. I don't see any other options for you except for those 2. Good luck either way.
Babolat Posted September 11, 2013 Posted September 11, 2013 I do think about her sometimes but emotions can now be controlled. But honestly I don't think i am completely over her. /QUOTE] Then don't go, period. 1
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