Kenkon Posted September 11, 2013 Posted September 11, 2013 Ihave a dog that I take out for walk everyday, last Sunday I was walking and this girls passed right next to me carrying a pizza, I didn't say anything to her, but I though she looked interesting, on Tuesday morning I took out my dog like I always do, and I saw her again! I think she lives in my same neighborhood, I ran into her an I said "sorry" because the dog was on her way, she smiled and said "its ok", she was on her way to work, it was 9am, this morning I got up and waited for her, I saw her walking, but she turn around, I waited for 5 minutes, and there she was, she changed her shoes, she was wearing high heels, she passed right next to me, but didn't knew what to say to her... I felt a little weird is the first time I wait for a girl that I don't know in the street, I notice she wasn't wearing a ring, my dog is irresistible cute and she hasn't approach to pet him or anything, HOW CAN I MEET HER!! ANY LINES?? Pls help!!
Philosoraptor Posted September 11, 2013 Posted September 11, 2013 "Hello" is a good starter. Ask her name and start a conversation. Ta da. 3
Author Kenkon Posted September 11, 2013 Author Posted September 11, 2013 You mean, stop her, and ask for her name, hey excuse, what's your name, I been seeing you in the neighborhood.... Like that... IT dosen't sound scary, or freaky?? I'm not stalking her, but she probably will think that..... Is that what you or a guy would do?
GorillaTheater Posted September 11, 2013 Posted September 11, 2013 You mean, stop her, and ask for her name, hey excuse, what's your name, I been seeing you in the neighborhood.... Like that... IT dosen't sound scary, or freaky?? I'm not stalking her, but she probably will think that..... Is that what you or a guy would do? Yeah, pretty much.
Philosoraptor Posted September 11, 2013 Posted September 11, 2013 You mean, stop her, and ask for her name, hey excuse, what's your name, I been seeing you in the neighborhood.... Like that... IT dosen't sound scary, or freaky?? I'm not stalking her, but she probably will think that..... Is that what you or a guy would do? How else do strangers meet? They are in a close proximity and say hi. Make a comment on the day, something you see outside, something that happened nearby recently, etc.
Author Kenkon Posted September 11, 2013 Author Posted September 11, 2013 I guess your right,,, now I need balls...I'll go for it tomorrow morning and let you know the results... 1
SincereOnlineGuy Posted September 11, 2013 Posted September 11, 2013 No, silly, talk to your dog while the girl is nearby/(within earshot). Say: "Hey, Fido, there's that girl again!" and then add: "I wonder if she's got any pizza!" ... and just warm up to her that way, on an occasional basis. (do NOT sit there and wait for her every day - she will become uneasy)
Anna178 Posted September 11, 2013 Posted September 11, 2013 No, silly, talk to your dog while the girl is nearby/(within earshot). Say: "Hey, Fido, there's that girl again!" and then add: "I wonder if she's got any pizza!" ... and just warm up to her that way, on an occasional basis. (do NOT sit there and wait for her every day - she will become uneasy) That's cute!! I would talk to you if you did that in front of me.
SincereOnlineGuy Posted September 12, 2013 Posted September 12, 2013 ... and the next (day's) move is to say (again, to your dog, and within earshot of the girl) : "Tell her that you love Pepperoni, and that you loathe anchovies... but that you could really go for Pepperoni and mushrooms (or whatever)" then, perhaps later, you add: "... and in the absence of pizza, some good old-fashioned 'Pup-peroni' would suffice in a pinch"
Author Kenkon Posted September 12, 2013 Author Posted September 12, 2013 So, the last 2 days I've seen her at exactly 9 am, this morning I decided to take the dog at 8:45 am, thinking I would give a 15 minute window to the dog so he can potty, we went outside, and I could see a block from were I was standing that she was already waiting for the train, I don't know if she noticed me or not from were I was..I don't think so, does this means that she just doesn't likes me? Should I wait for her until she gets off work? I mean she must have a 9-5 schedule... To much of a stalker?? Omg! She looked beautiful today!! Im so sad, I didn't got the opportunity....or should I wait for tomorrow?
SincereOnlineGuy Posted September 12, 2013 Posted September 12, 2013 Missing a day was probably a good thing, at least in order to have her NOT seeing you there every day. Go back at the regular time tomorrow... that way, you can maintain that you are indeed keeping your routine. If you see her on your routine, then it is "ok"... but if you keep altering the times, and just happening to see her every day, then you look bad.
Author Kenkon Posted September 13, 2013 Author Posted September 13, 2013 Im so happy!!, Im 32 years old and I still can't believe that get nervous, so this is what happened, I left home at 8:45 am again, I waited and waited, 9:05 am she was there walking towards the train, I got on my knees and started petting the dog, just went she passed right next to me, I said hey! You had pizza last, last, last, I forgot the damn day!, then I just said some day I think I said Monday or Tuesday, don't know, but she said then sunday right away, she said yes from from Regina's!, then the damn dog jumped over her, with his paws all wet(it just rain), I said sorry, you don't like pets?? She said yes but I'm on my way to work, ok , my name is kenji, what's your name, she said nicole, then I said how come you never say hi?, she said ohh sorry and she said hi to the dog, after that I said is nicole right? She said yes, we'll see ya around Nicole, and that was it,,, WHAT SHOULD I DO NOW?? Is Friday so she is probably off sat and sun, I guess I have to wait until Monday now?? This whole thing happened like in less then a minute..... 1
Author Kenkon Posted September 13, 2013 Author Posted September 13, 2013 She smiled and looked open but in a hurry, she is good looking, not as good as I though she would be, but she is good looking, she has a high pitch on her voice, she sound like she is a very responsible girl, like very focus, and she looks like she's on her 20's 25-27.... I was going to ask her out, but I didn't though it was appropriate,.....WHAT SHOULD I DO!!! Wait for her until Monday, or stalk her over the weekend?? If there any girls reeding this, for your info, I'm not a pervert, I just happened to like this girl....
Philosoraptor Posted September 13, 2013 Posted September 13, 2013 Well when you see her, say hi again. Just by your writing there you were completely nervous. When you get the courage, ask if she'd like to walk together/get lunch/get dinner one day, etc.
2sure Posted September 13, 2013 Posted September 13, 2013 Well, it didn't go that great. I think that now you're going to need to cool it for at least a few days, then next time see how she reacts. If she says Hi and walks faster, you're done . If she says Hi and stops, you can get a feel for her friendliness and if it's good... Hey, I'm new in the neighborhood ( or, are you new in the neighborhood? ) , I live right there, I work over there... Would you like to grab coffee this weekend ? If she says some form of No...she will still be flattered , and you can just reply with a smile "Have a nice day then." Nothing ventured, nothing gained. And his doesn't leave you in an awkward position.
Author Kenkon Posted September 13, 2013 Author Posted September 13, 2013 Ohhh... I knew I should have asked her out, but I though it was to soon,, i'll wait until Monday now... Fck, everything happened so fast!... Does this means IM DONE? FINISH? I DON'T HAVE A CHANCE ANYMORE?
GorillaTheater Posted September 13, 2013 Posted September 13, 2013 Ohhh... I knew I should have asked her out, but I though it was to soon,, i'll wait until Monday now... Fck, everything happened so fast!... Does this means IM DONE? FINISH? I DON'T HAVE A CHANCE ANYMORE? Relax. I feel like I need to repeat "relax" every other word here, because that's the most helpful advice I can offer. Yeah, you may have screwed this up, but so what? Is it going to kill you? No. You can handle this, whatever happens and regardless of outcome. Ask her out with no expectations. If nothing else, it's good practice. And relax.
Author Kenkon Posted September 13, 2013 Author Posted September 13, 2013 Thank You all for your advice,,, I'm just going to forget about her, otherwise I could end up in a big depression, I don't wanna be there, is hard to get out of those depressions, i already tried killing my self once by jumping off the 4th floor of my building 2 years ago,, for something similar....I been trough this many times.. I like my dog and my single life...
Author Kenkon Posted September 13, 2013 Author Posted September 13, 2013 Love is an illusion, is just fantasy.. There more important things than love...
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