chow538 Posted September 11, 2013 Posted September 11, 2013 Me and my girl went out for about 4.5 months. We spent a little bit of time together at the beginning, then went to seeing one another for about 4 times a week. She went on a vacation for about a week, we texted a lot throughout the time from Sunday till about Wednesday. She was out there for a friends wedding and I let her have her space. The thing is when Thursday struck, the I love you and the I miss you wasn’t there anymore. It started to freak me out, she stopped texting me and I lost it Friday night. I was at a friends bond fire just staring at the fire and waiting for her to text me, and I never got anything. I started to freak out a bit. My friend told me a story about how his ex was in another state and started making out with a bunch of guys, and that really sent me over the edge. Anxiety, depression, stress, anger, and being drunk really was not a good combination. I started texting her blurts instead of actual sentences, and I accused her of doing wrong while she was out there. (total mistake) We talked about it on the Sunday before she came back the, we were texting and everything seemed fine, so I thought it would all pass by and I would not have to worry about it. Then she got back and we planned for her to come to my work to have lunch together and catch up. She came back and didn’t want to see me and I just let it go. That Wednesday I was her date for a cougars game and she introduced me to everyone one of their office friends as her boyfriend. Everything seemed to be fine, Then she started to get a little distant and Saturday she broke up with me out of the blue. 2 weeks later she finally contacts me and just wants to be friends. What the heck is going on?? She told me that she loved me awhile back, she said this first at a concert and we had our moment in the middle of the concert and it was just like it was just us and no one around us for a few minutes. Now she just wants to be friends, I want more but it doesn’t seem like she does. I called her and talked to her for like an hour and 20 minute conversation about where we are. And basically she still cares about me and all that mushy stuff, no love though. I know I freaked out but she should understand that this was my first relationship and I just never experienced that feeling before. What can I do?? The kicker is that she says that she has commitment issues, which I understand considering that her last boyfriend cheated on her, I get that but still, I was the nicest boyfriend she has ever had, according to her.
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