Spoonss Posted September 11, 2013 Posted September 11, 2013 Ok so this girl that just joined my friends circle a few months back we hang out fairly oftent probably once a week with my friends. To my suprise we where talking outside and she asked me to go to a movie today. So I texted her saying "whats up, movie tonight?" she replied with oh sorry im already out what are you doing tommorow? I said nothing planned yet. I saw she read the message but didnt respond. If she doesnt by tommorow should I contact her to ask if she wants to go to a movie still or just let her make the next move. Thanks in advance for the advice:D
rbrock2323 Posted September 11, 2013 Posted September 11, 2013 The "cool" thing to do would be to not text her back and wait for her to respond. That's what most people will tell you. The right, but "wrong" thing to do would be to text her back and ask out of courtesy. I will tell you this, it most likely will not work in your favor and she'll turn you down. But at least you know that you tried and kept her interest in mind...you know...what nice guys do that nobody wants.... But keep being the nice guy, there's too many pricks out there. Something will come your way eventually.
sickpuppy Posted September 11, 2013 Posted September 11, 2013 Ok so this girl that just joined my friends circle a few months back we hang out fairly oftent probably once a week with my friends. To my suprise we where talking outside and she asked me to go to a movie today. So I texted her saying "whats up, movie tonight?" she replied with oh sorry im already out what are you doing tommorow? I said nothing planned yet. I saw she read the message but didnt respond. If she doesnt by tommorow should I contact her to ask if she wants to go to a movie still or just let her make the next move. Thanks in advance for the advice:D Never say you aren't doing anything. Tell anyone you have to see first. As for now don't text her again. Let her come around and keep it normal conversation. (Not showing any neediness or bitterness etc.) Like you "forgot" she never rsponded but don't say that. lol. Forget a movie. Take her out if she asks again to do an action date like bowling, minature golf, indoor rock climbing, or anything you can walk and talk like the Zoo.
Author Spoonss Posted September 11, 2013 Author Posted September 11, 2013 normally i wouldnt give a **** but she asked me to go with her so thats why I am confused..
rbrock2323 Posted September 11, 2013 Posted September 11, 2013 Don't be confused, you're wasting your time by doing so. 1
white Posted September 11, 2013 Posted September 11, 2013 I'd come up with something to do tomorrow and then suggest it. Doesn't have to be much. You can't ask people out on the day, of course they'll be busy.
heartshaped Posted September 11, 2013 Posted September 11, 2013 Sounds like something else came up. Maybe another date with another guy or could've just been an errand or something with a friend, etc. At any rate, something came up that took precedence over her meeting you. I'm assuming that based upon the fact she couldn't have lost interest in 24 hrs unless one of your mutual friends perhaps warned her off or something. I wouldn't respond again or say anything as she asked you out. If she's interested, she'll get back in touch with you.
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