Jord11 Posted September 11, 2013 Posted September 11, 2013 I have been in nc with this girl for 6 months, why would she do this, makes me feel terrible
AllTooWell Posted September 11, 2013 Posted September 11, 2013 I'm assuming because in the time you dated she grew to care about your sister and does not have the decency to respect that you need space (as does your family) The real question is why you don't have her blocked on social networking, so that you can't see such things. Talk to your sister and tell her how it is making you feel, and tell your sister that for the moment being you're going to remove her from Facebook because it hurts you to see your exes name but you respect that they have a relationship. I don't think that that is unreasonable, keep in touch with your sister through other methods until you are capable of seeing that your ex still has contact with her. 1
Author Jord11 Posted September 11, 2013 Author Posted September 11, 2013 I understand, I realized she didn't feel that much for me when I thought she did, thanks for the help
reddragon588 Posted September 11, 2013 Posted September 11, 2013 I don't know the context of the situation but I wouldn't read into it. My ex still comments and likes things on some of my good friend's pages that she wasn't friends with outside of me. If it is troublesome, you can block your ex and you won't see anything. You can also hide your sister if you don't want to remove her so that her updates won't show up on your newsfeed. You can also go off Facebook completely. I deactivated my Facebook for almost 3 weeks and it really helped me to get away from it and clear my head. People don't realize it, and until you get away from it for a while it almost seems silly, but Facebook can actually cause a lot of stress.
Salvatore85 Posted September 11, 2013 Posted September 11, 2013 I guess I'm just different. When one of my friends on Facebook posted a photo of her and my ex girlfriend hanging out I unfriended her. While that might seem odd to some people it's just my way of dealing with things. I ignore absolutely anything that pertains to my ex. I just act as though she doesn't exist. My healing is worth much more to me than a Facebook account.
Misfortune Posted September 11, 2013 Posted September 11, 2013 I finally found out how to delete my fb account ages of trying to get rid of it. I could never locate the delete button, only the deactivate button was easily accessible. I believe fb wanted to keep me there forever. :/
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