ConfusedOM Posted September 11, 2013 Posted September 11, 2013 I state that their happiness is important me. That I would respect them no matter what they choose, but simply need to know which way they are headings. They got mad and turned it back on me saying "I can't believe you would say that" or "I gotta run. Thank you
ForeverHopeful1 Posted September 11, 2013 Posted September 11, 2013 Well, I'm guessing your the OM from your name. Your AP may have been upset that they were being asked to make a decision Cheaters hate that. They want to keep their H/W and have an AP on the side. Classic cake eater response to a seemingly supportive statement. If supporting them in being with whorver they choose is a bad thing, I dont get it either. It just means they dont want to choose.
bentleychic Posted September 11, 2013 Posted September 11, 2013 Yup, classic pushed in to a corner response. Get defensive so you don't have to reply with an answer or decision.
wrinkledforhead Posted September 11, 2013 Posted September 11, 2013 :/ you should be able to state that and have it be appreciated. Loving someone means you want their happiness, no matter what. Its recognizing that love exists, regardless of other factors. Her response is irrational. She should thank you for your words.
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