expos Posted November 19, 2004 Posted November 19, 2004 I have a major crush on a girl that I finally had the nerve to contact after a very long time. I finally emailed her, told her my story about how I never had the chance met her, and she replied back sounding pretty excited. She even gave me her phone number and she thought it would be cool if we met. Well the situation now is that I called her this past Wednesday and left a message ONCE on her machine. She has yet to call me back. In my message and previous emails, I told her that it would be really nice if we met this Saturday. Well it's now Friday, and I haven't heard anything yet. My questions are: 1) Girls love talking on the phone, and I'm pretty sure that she got my message, is she avoiding me purposely to make me squirm? 2) Do you honestly think she's interested? 3) What do I do from here if she doesn't respond? and finally 4) She's got to love the fact that somebody is giving her attention...why doesn't she just call me up and we can have a fun time together?
MafiaGal4984 Posted November 19, 2004 Posted November 19, 2004 Ok first off, the comment "She's gotta love that someone is giving her attention" is kinda harsh dont you think? Definately dont think of her like that...us girls have a lot going on. I say call her again, but be casual sounding. If she answers great. If not, leave another message. If she doesnt call you back within say 5 days after this message, give up and move on to someone who deserves you. Good luck!
Author expos Posted November 19, 2004 Author Posted November 19, 2004 Should I try calling tommorow? I just don't want to sound desperate. Also, I wasn't meaning to be harsh, I was just commenting on the fact the both men and women love attention.
Author expos Posted November 19, 2004 Author Posted November 19, 2004 Should I try calling tommorow? I just don't want to sound desperate. Also, I wasn't meaning to be harsh, I was just commenting on the fact the both men and women love attention.
Pocky Posted November 19, 2004 Posted November 19, 2004 1) Girls love talking on the phone, and I'm pretty sure that she got my message, is she avoiding me purposely to make me squirm? Who knows? Not a question that anyone can answer with certainty. 2) Do you honestly think she's interested? Who knows? Not a question that anyone can answer with certainty. 3) What do I do from here if she doesn't respond? Try again. Maybe she's been sick. Maybe she's been on vacation. Maybe she didn't get the message - does she live with anyone else that could have forgotten to give her the message? 4) She's got to love the fact that somebody is giving her attention...why doesn't she just call me up and we can have a fun time together? Maybe she's been sick. Maybe she's been on vacation. Maybe she didn't get the message - does she live with anyone else that could have forgotten to give her the message? A week is a short amount of time. Weeks pass in a blur in my life. You only called once? Call again.
Author expos Posted November 19, 2004 Author Posted November 19, 2004 I don't want to leave a bunch of messages on her machine.... arggh...so frustrating...why can't she just give me some kind of reply?!!!!
MafiaGal4984 Posted November 19, 2004 Posted November 19, 2004 Ok I know the whole " I dont wanna be a pain" thing, I feel for you there. If she hasnt called you today, I say make other plans. If you still don't hear from her by Sunday, call again. If you do not get a response by Friday(next) forget her. She doesnt deserve you. I'll be in touch. Good luck
Author expos Posted February 21, 2005 Author Posted February 21, 2005 MY DREAM CAME TRUE. I just wanted everyone to know that I finally met this girl...I found her on messenger and we talked a little bit. We finally met this weekend with friends in tow. Anyways...we got along pretty well. I later went to club with her and her girl and guy friends (which I also got along with really well). We danced, drank and had a great time. She often took bathroom breaks with her friends (which was probably gossip time). During those times, her other friends would come up to me and tell me that I was really handsome and cute...and that the girl I've been after is really digging me. Everyone was really happy for her too, because I turned out to be I guess "a winner" for her. We got out of the club at 2:00am...and we left hand in hand. She drove me back to my friend's apartment and we made out in the lobby of his apartment. It was easily one of the most amazing moments I've had in the past several years....to have my fantasy come true with a girl I've been wanting to date for a better half of a decade. She told me when she left that I "have to call her". The big question...when should I call her?...I don't want to sound to desperate because I was desperate in trying to get a date with her in the beginning.....so how many days sound I wait to call her?
Pendawn Posted February 22, 2005 Posted February 22, 2005 Originally posted by expos MY DREAM CAME TRUE. She told me when she left that I "have to call her". The big question...when should I call her?...I don't want to sound to desperate because I was desperate in trying to get a date with her in the beginning.....so how many days sound I wait to call her? First of all congrats on the success, it must be fabulous to have something you've wanted so long happen. I say wait 3 days, 1 is too keen any longer than 3-4 and I'd say she'd get dispondant.
Author expos Posted February 22, 2005 Author Posted February 22, 2005 Does a week seem to long? I was thinking about calling Monday night.
April22 Posted February 22, 2005 Posted February 22, 2005 A week? Do you to be friends or more then that? If you want to date her, waiting a few days before you call will make her think about you and she should be excited for when you do call. I wouldn’t wait more then 2-4 days from now because more then that might be a let down to her, unless you do just want to be friends.
Author expos Posted February 22, 2005 Author Posted February 22, 2005 I definitely don't want to play a game with her...but I was very desperate and borderline annoying and trying to get a meeting a with her. I don't want to continue this behavior with her. Now, that she has met me, I think I totally exceeded her expectations and she possibly wants to see me. I'll call Thursday night...
Author expos Posted October 24, 2005 Author Posted October 24, 2005 I have to laugh and follow this post up from early this year.... This girl was a LESBIAN...after weeks of frustration with her (getting nowhere, no phone calls, no responses to email's)...I found her myspace page and started laughing my ass off. Photos of her with her lesbo buddies. So yeah...I made out with Lesbian...10 points for me, pass GO and collect 200 dollars. haha.
justsomeguy Posted October 24, 2005 Posted October 24, 2005 I'm confused. Everything was working fine and you even made out and she said to call her. And after all of that you lost contact again and found out she was a lesbian?
Author expos Posted October 24, 2005 Author Posted October 24, 2005 Yes...it was a solid month together...hanging out, doing whatnot. Than all of a sudden she stops returning my phone calls and everything else. Bizarre. Turns out she WAS a lesbian...and was involved with another girl all the while she was with me. I tried to ask her why she wanted to be with me if she was a lesbian but never got an answer. I found out she was lesbian through one of her friends. When I look back at it...she seemed like quite a confused person. I could care less about her now...and I laugh at the whole situation. I feel like, for fun, I should let her girlfriend know that she's good kisser...but that's just fueling a fire. lol.
glittergurl Posted October 24, 2005 Posted October 24, 2005 EEEEKKKK!!! LOL At least you're not torn in pieces about it now lol
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