Notry412 Posted September 11, 2013 Posted September 11, 2013 So I was with a girl for about 3 months not long, but it was the most intense relationship I've been in, and I have been in quite a few now. I guess I was a rebound but didn't see it. At least not soon enough, so our relationship fell apart about 2 weeks ago on my birthday. So she was apart from her x for about 3 months before me, and said it was over. So today I get a text that after we split up they are back together and getting married. She was blocked on my phone so she sent it from a friends phone. Really just shell shocked right now, I know its not worth being upset over but it got to me. The worst part is that her message said she loves me so much still, and always will. She wishes I was him, but she is marrying him because he can offer her more then I can. I guess he bought her a house and put her name on it. Also promising more then that I guess, I just can't understand how you go from where they were when I met her, to married 2 weeks after we broke up. Then to say all this stuff about really loving me, but I guess he made a offer I can't match. It just blows me away how people can change so fast, I really know she is bad news to date me for 3 months which he knows about now, and he is still offering her all this and more. Just blows me away, I never really had a shot with her because he never gave up and tried harder every day. She changed her number and he would just show up at work, then eventually got her new number and didn't stop everyday texting her and calling. She was texting me every day with how much she misses me until I blocked her about 3 or 4 days ago, then I get this. Just reaching out cause I'm having a hard time with it, it really knocked me for a loop.
bubbaganoosh Posted September 11, 2013 Posted September 11, 2013 Dude. KISS THE SKY AND BE GRATEFUL! You have no idea how lucky you are. If that's the kind of woman you want, a gold digger and looking for someone with real deep pockets then text her back and wish her the best and thank her for the heads up. You should feel like you just hit the lottery after hearing what she said.
Author Notry412 Posted September 11, 2013 Author Posted September 11, 2013 Yea I know it's nuts I still can't believe it. Just mostly stunned, I knew she was talking to him again, but to go from that to marriage it's insane. It just really hit me hard for some reason, even tho I know I should be relieved I feel like I got hit by a car.
Brown-Eyez Posted September 11, 2013 Posted September 11, 2013 "The worst part is that her message said she loves me so much still, and always will. She wishes I was him, but she is marrying him because he can offer her more then I can." This was a really cruel and inconsiderate thing she did/said!! Talk about twisting the knife! Hang in there and ask your friend to block her too so that you receive no more of this type of sadistic contact
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