bentleychic Posted September 10, 2013 Posted September 10, 2013 Just seeing the new post about OLD made me think of a situation that I had. I searched to see if there were any other threads like this so forgive me if it's a repeat. My weirdest is that I joined a site (friends, dating, etc., cannot remember the name), looking for more local friends soon after my separation. Immediately got a few responses, but one guy looked really familiar. When he found out my job, he said his mother worked for the same place and then I realized who he was. The son of a co-worker and friend, who happens to like MY dad. I told him who I was and we chit chatted. He very quickly escalated from chit chat to asking me to come over for a beer "and see what happened". Literally within a few messages. By the end of the nights convo, he had commented how cool it would be if we got married b/c my kids already loved his mom and she would be their grandma.
happywithlife Posted September 10, 2013 Posted September 10, 2013 Weirdest experience I had was I went on several dates w/ one guy who ran very hot and cold. He loved the pursuit and ran if I showed more than a fleeting interest. So I told him to stop contacting me. He texted me a month later and asked if we could meet. I foolishly said yes. He then asked if we could seriously date because he was tired of living life alone and I was the most stable person he had met recently. Of course, I said no! And then wished him luck w/ his dating life and kindly asked him not to contact me again!
365daysgone Posted September 10, 2013 Posted September 10, 2013 I have a thread documenting this whole thing but basically...I'm talking to this girl on POF, get her number, we text, I ask her to meet up for a coffee and she no shows. She says her alarm didn't go off even though I texted her confirming 6 hours prior (which she never responded to). Anyways, she cancels 4 times after this - some of the times I had set up a meet, sometimes SHE did. Se gives lame excuses every time. The 6th time she ends up showing up when I ask if se wants to come over to my place and watch a movie. She stretches on the couch and everyone on LS thinks she wanted sex. If she did though then why cancel all those other times? Anyways the next day she says she had fun and we agree to do it again. She cancels another 3 times. Then this past weekend, we're talking and she says she wanted to cuddle. I said I should have kissed her and she says I should have. She wanted me to. Anyways it's so bizarre to me. Why cancel that many times if you want sex? Why not meet and convince me to take her to my place? So weird.
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