mattboltz Posted September 10, 2013 Posted September 10, 2013 I dated this girl for 7 months but I broke it off because she couldn't commit, and never made me feel like she really wanted the relationship. We are both at different schools, and haven't spoken since we broke up. I am missing her alot, and just today she posted on my mom's facebook telling her "Happy Birthday! Hope you have a great day :)" We've been broken up for 2 and a half weeks. Is that a sign that she wants me to contact her, or is she just trying to mess with my head? Thanks for your thoughts.
LinkWorshiper Posted September 10, 2013 Posted September 10, 2013 I dated this girl for 7 months but I broke it off because she couldn't commit, and never made me feel like she really wanted the relationship. We are both at different schools, and haven't spoken since we broke up. I am missing her alot, and just today she posted on my mom's facebook telling her "Happy Birthday! Hope you have a great day :)" We've been broken up for 2 and a half weeks. Is that a sign that she wants me to contact her, or is she just trying to mess with my head? Thanks for your thoughts. Is she super close with your mom? If she thought your mom was just a cool lady regardless of the fact she was dating her son, I wouldn't think too much about it. But if it seems a little out of the blue, I might wonder what her angle was. I might ignore it since it wasn't like she posted on YOUR wall or made any contact with YOU. If she was trying to get you to notice, she might step up her game if that's the case. 1
Author mattboltz Posted September 10, 2013 Author Posted September 10, 2013 My mom was really friendly to her, but they've not been super close. I just don't think I would do it if I just broke up with my girlfriend.
Mariposa10 Posted September 10, 2013 Posted September 10, 2013 I would have done the same thing your ex-girlfriend did.... Even if we had broken up...
LinkWorshiper Posted September 10, 2013 Posted September 10, 2013 Which just goes to show everyone is different. But I hope you would know her well enough to know what mind of person she is.
Author mattboltz Posted September 11, 2013 Author Posted September 11, 2013 I talked to my ex today, I called her. This is the first we have communicated since the BU. She was very corgial, and acted as if we had been friends forever. When I told her that I missed her, she said that she missed me too, but that she couldn't do a relationship. She said she was back home last week, and she was glad to leave so that she didn't have to drive by my house. She says pharmacy school is taking too much time, and cannot allow her to have a healthy relationship. Quite honestly I understand where she is coming from. At the same time, she said she still wants to talk to me, and said to call her this weekend after her exam so that she will have time to talk. I feel like she wants me when she can, but knows she cant have a full time relationship. Can anybody clarify?
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