saltyfishhead666 Posted September 10, 2013 Posted September 10, 2013 So recently I met someone I like, yesterday actually. He's funny, charming, out going and just what I need. He know's my situation, how raw it is and that I am still healing. But we're talking and it feels good. Just wanted to share incase people thought I'd vanished, I haven't I'm just taking out some Clare time. I hope everyone's ok xxxxxxx 4
AlexanderJames Posted September 10, 2013 Posted September 10, 2013 Good to hear hope this one has no ex wife Seperation anxiety
Author saltyfishhead666 Posted September 10, 2013 Author Posted September 10, 2013 Rubbish. Mummyjonno, go for it. :-) Thanks honey! I'm not one to take anyone for a rebound, it's not in me to do that! No ex wife drama whoooooooohooooooo LOL xx
ConfusedHumanBeing Posted September 10, 2013 Posted September 10, 2013 Pretty cool you have those feelings again. Making progress! However, with you still posting so much and how pretty soon the BU was, I say its too soon to do anything like date or anything of that nature. 3
Author saltyfishhead666 Posted September 10, 2013 Author Posted September 10, 2013 Pretty cool you have those feelings again. Making progress! However, with you still posting so much and how pretty soon the BU was, I say its too soon to do anything like date or anything of that nature. Oh I agree and I have informed him of this - I don't want to mislead him as that's really unfair! Just hang out, go with the flow, heal, grow you know the dealio xx 2
barky2 Posted September 10, 2013 Posted September 10, 2013 I may have missed it already so pardon if your repeating yourself but what happened with the babyy Barky
Author saltyfishhead666 Posted September 10, 2013 Author Posted September 10, 2013 I may have missed it already so pardon if your repeating yourself but what happened with the babyy Barky Nothing as of yet honey. It seems he doesn't want to disgus it (ex) I asked his aunt to get him to give me a call. No nothing so it looks like I am making this decision on my own x
barky2 Posted September 10, 2013 Posted September 10, 2013 Well I wish you nothing but the best. Guard your heart. Your EXTREMELY vulnerable right now. Barky
JDPT Posted September 10, 2013 Posted September 10, 2013 You may be ready or you may not, I personally believe is a bit premature and you should mostly be concern with you being "ready" as opposed to focusing so much on the other party. By default if you are ready to play the field there would be no need to be so concern about "hurting" the other party. It's your healing journey not the people you met. Hope it all goes well nonetheless. 2
JPMC Posted September 10, 2013 Posted September 10, 2013 Take it really SLOW!!!! One date a week, one phone conversation a week. No texts or emails. Rebounds are incredibly emotional and they come on fast. What ends up happening, is if you don't have a chance to heal, those lingering issues won't go away. No one is anyone's savior. Only you can save yourself. I'm glad this is happening for you. That's great news! 1
crazy1234 Posted September 10, 2013 Posted September 10, 2013 So recently I met someone I like, yesterday actually. He's funny, charming, out going and just what I need. He know's my situation, how raw it is and that I am still healing. But we're talking and it feels good. Just wanted to share incase people thought I'd vanished, I haven't I'm just taking out some Clare time. I hope everyone's ok xxxxxxx Its a new and good thing to here on loveshack.We can hope to find someone like that too oneday by looking at your example..Take things slow and best of luck!!
AHaze Posted September 10, 2013 Posted September 10, 2013 Doesn't take you long does it.. Does he know you're pregnant?
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