Theusername Posted September 10, 2013 Posted September 10, 2013 I don't know how to start. So I just will. This is probably going to be more of a rant than anything. We were together for almost two years. She was my first real love. We'd been arguing and we decided to take a break. I knew t wasn't a good idea but I had myself convinced it would work. We kept talking and seeing each other but we weren't technically together. We weren't seeig other people. Or so I thought.anyway. We'd been talking and hanging out and we'd had sex and cuddled and I really thought. She still loved me. Then one day I found her twitter account I didn't know about. She'd been making fun of me the entire time we'd been talking publicly on her twitter. Posting screenshots of me sending her a <3 the day after she slept with me saying " I broke up with you two months ago stop texting e haha". And on top of that there's Ankther guy and there was a video of her grinding him with her shirt off online.sje. Was never like this. She was always. Nice and. She was a virgin when I met her. It's like we broke up and she just did everything she could to hurt me as much as possible. She swore to me there was noone else. I dot know why she did this. I keep texting her drunk and angry trying to find out eh she did this. How she could do this. Infeel like the past two years have been a lie. I don't know what to do.
keepontruckin Posted September 10, 2013 Posted September 10, 2013 You do nothing. Drop her like a hot potato, whether you want to or not. You will be angry and sad. Convey none of that to her. You are now going to have to become Fonzie... Ultra cool at all times, while demanding respect without asking for it...
todreaminblue Posted September 10, 2013 Posted September 10, 2013 you worry less because she cant hurt you any more than she already has...you take the time to heal you forget about this girl she is obviously immature, one day she will look back and hopefully regret the people she hurts along the trail she is going......she could have deeper issues that are making her act out..... whatever the case is she wasnt ready or willing to be with you ,her heart is elsewhere..... she is no longer your concern, you are though....so heal and find someone in time, who treats you with respect and loves you like you love them....good luck.....deb
bob the brave Posted September 11, 2013 Posted September 11, 2013 Ouch...I had a girl runoff, get married and pregnant within 5 months.I had to go to a formal party for my boss and sit at the same table with her and her new husband with her pregnant. I thought that hurt, but this is real close. Sorry mate, I know it smarts. But, keepontruckn is right. I know it's hard, but just forget what's her name, brace the wind and keep movin forward. This is, unfortunately, life on this planet, like it or not. You are not alone. Like I've suggested to others, although it is romantic, never give yourself fully in a relationship. Love them, befriend them, help them, but never give so much or expect something from them that makes you vulnerable because we can never predict nor control what others may do - we are human. This will make you stronger, wiser and more valuable to a good partner and protect yourself from the others.
BarOfButter Posted September 11, 2013 Posted September 11, 2013 Some people are just heartless. They don't care about anybody but themselves when you put your heart out there and care about them more than you care about yourself. People like that are immature and just like playing games with hearts like its no big deal. You think they're loving which is what makes it hurt even more, its a betrayal of trust and the person you thought you knew. That's just it. Heartlessness. I don't know where people learn it or think they can act that way but it happens. But I'm confident there has to be good people out there.
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