crederer Posted September 10, 2013 Posted September 10, 2013 I met a girl a few weeks ago. Went on a few dates and I asked her if she was seeing anyone else. She said no. Anyways I added her to facebook like 3 weeks ago and I noticed her facebook statuses were kind of weird (announcing some personal stuff, which I never do personally). It was a bit of a turn off for me but I thought maybe I was just over thinking things. She sends me texts regularly, flirtatious, asked me when the next time I'd take her out/hang out. We had sex for the first time a few days ago. So I went on to facebook just now and noticed her status that she posted was a picture of two bowls of ice cream and the caption was "just having ice cream with my bf "heart symbol". I'm not her boyfriend nor was I there eating ice cream. I know she has a couple of gay male friends, and some people make posts like that kind of jokingly. Her relationship status is not posted on fb. She knows I have her on fb and knows that I'm not into girls that are attached. Wtf is this about? I mean she knows I'm going to see this post.........so weird. Never been in this situation before. This post was made about 45 minutes after she asked me how my camping trip went this weekend. Should I even bother trying to clarify this (possibly making me look like a super jealous guy) or just gettin' outta dodge, as they say?
emva07 Posted September 10, 2013 Posted September 10, 2013 Won't know until you ask... BF also stands for best friend. 2
Author crederer Posted September 10, 2013 Author Posted September 10, 2013 (edited) Wow, you're right I didn't even think of that. I guess cause I'm a dude I'd never say something like that on facebook. And yep, the person she was talking about is quite clearly gay, so we'll just chalk this up to a miscommunication. Edited September 10, 2013 by crederer 3
candie13 Posted September 10, 2013 Posted September 10, 2013 hahaha, funny... I'd still ask ! I ain't much fun about these things, but hey, I prefer to know than to not know. Oh, and have a blast this weekend!!
Leigh 87 Posted September 10, 2013 Posted September 10, 2013 Yuck. I'd not date a person who posted their about their personal life on Facebook. You can do better. How old is she? She will probably post all about how much she loves you, or, alternatively, how sad she is if you were to break up. No thanks.
veggirl Posted September 10, 2013 Posted September 10, 2013 Won't know until you ask... BF also stands for best friend. Usually people say BFF for that. OP I don't even know how you had time to type this post, I'd have picked up the phone as soon as I saw that and asked what was up, lol. but I see he is quite clearly gay so okay. The girl with the gay boyfriend, oh god. you guys are young I take it.
scorpiogirl Posted September 10, 2013 Posted September 10, 2013 (edited) OP it probably was just best friend. Or something silly and easily explained. Edited September 10, 2013 by a LoveShack.org Moderator Personal comments redacted 2
HappyLove Posted September 10, 2013 Posted September 10, 2013 Well your not gonna find out from us, just ASK! 1
TigerCub Posted September 10, 2013 Posted September 10, 2013 Yuck. I'd not date a person who posted their about their personal life on Facebook. You can do better. How old is she? She will probably post all about how much she loves you, or, alternatively, how sad she is if you were to break up. No thanks. Not trying to be a smartass, but how is posting about one's personal life on Facebook worse than posting about it here on LS. In your case, you use your real photo, you discuss your relationships and breakups and all that - how is it different? I'm honestly curious. I don't even do facebook, so I'm not defending what that girl does, I just fail to see the difference between being identified on LS and posting - and using FB to post. 1
Blastoplast Posted September 10, 2013 Posted September 10, 2013 I dated a girl with a boyfriend inadvertently about a half year ago. She was fun, cute and we had a ton in common. I think she just wanted a fling because she wasn't getting any in the sack, because when we had sex it was like she hadn't been laid in months wild. After a while she just stopped responding to texts and calls -- eventually got a hold of her and it was awkward. I really think she liked me, but she liked her boyfriend too and I think he was catching on to her, so rather than taking a chance on me she went with something more familiar (even with all her friends were rooting for me to get with her). Bottom line? I wouldn't want a partner who would leave somebody else for me, let alone the fact it was behind her partner's back the whole time.
Kofybean Posted September 11, 2013 Posted September 11, 2013 Won't know until you ask... BF also stands for best friend. I thought bff = friend bf = dating Since when does a girl identify a friend only with bf and a heart symbol? "just having ice cream with my bf "heart symbol"????
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