Patty Posted November 18, 2004 Posted November 18, 2004 I was wandering if any of you could help me out on how to make my guy laugh at me.He always seems to laugh at other people when they joke with him.I wish I had that talent of getting him to laugh at me.I would love for him to laugh at me.
niko1999 Posted November 19, 2004 Posted November 19, 2004 Laugh at yourself for one thing. For another, you may be trying to be too forced with making him laugh. Relax, have fun. If you slip on the floor at work becuase someone just mopped, and he sees, dont be horrified, LAUGH ABOUT IT! Guys love a girl with a sense of humor about herself. As far as jokes, some people just arent equipped with telling funny jokes. But if you notice something you think is funny, or hear something you think is funny, when he is not around, remember it, and try it on him. Wittiness is usually a learned thing. Let me know how it works. By the way Patti, WHAT IS HIS NAME????!!!
Author Patty Posted November 19, 2004 Author Posted November 19, 2004 Thanks.I'll try that. His name is Hiram. Patty
gridiron Posted November 19, 2004 Posted November 19, 2004 I would echo what Niko said. Everyone's sense of humor varies, but the key is to just be relaxed and PAY ATTENTION to your surroundings. If you are, then once in a while when you see someone or something odd or funny, you can point it out - not in a mean way, but just sharing something with him that he would not have otherwise noticed. And then think of something embarassing or silly that you did in the past and relay it to him. You don't need to try too hard to do this or do it too often, as constantly making fun of yourself can be seen as low self-esteem. But if you have confidence in yourself, yet can laugh at some of the things you have done in the past once in a while, that is definitely a plus. And make fun of him if he does something silly or dumb, not a mean remark or anything, just point out something in a lighthearted way and with a sly grin or laugh that is more flirtatious than antagonistic. Then he will do it back to you if he sees an opening. It is hard to describe in words, but if you are relaxed and have good chemistry with him, it will eventually come naturally.
Barby Posted November 19, 2004 Posted November 19, 2004 Also you can try just making a joke...try making a funny face at him or something. Is he laughing at people's jokes in English or Spanish? If he can't understand you he can't laugh with you?!
Author Patty Posted November 20, 2004 Author Posted November 20, 2004 You all have great ideas. Thanks. Theres a older lady that works there and shes English and talks to him in English and can get him to still laugh.So,hopefully,I can too. Patty
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