SiaLv82 Posted September 10, 2013 Posted September 10, 2013 Went out with an old flame last Thursday. We haven't seen each other in 5yrs and were nothing more than fwbs at the time. It was all purely physical at the time. We had a few drinks and talked about family, what we've been up too, ect. Personal stuff we never got into beforehand. At of the night he starts getting touchy feely. Leaves for the restroom, comes back hugs me, then sits down w his legs between mine. He knew both bartenders well and it ended up just being the four of us by closing. We go to leave and outside he's grabs me affectionatelyand asks me to hold his hand. I laugh and say no and just shake my head. Thinking to myself is this guy for real or just being flirtatious. We get to my car and I hug him twice and he mentions about getting together this week. He went to Boston from Friday to Sunday. Well, now Minday (4 days later) and have not gotten a text or anything. I actually texted him that night and thanked for good time with a joke about something we discussed. I suppose it is safe to assume no second go?
Ninjainpajamas Posted September 10, 2013 Posted September 10, 2013 It's safe to assume he has other things going on and his interest is limited, and things were probably perpetuated by a little alcohol. But no, he's not for real. He might hit you up when he's got some down time again and nothing going on though...he might have decided that this wasn't something he wanted to do again, If you're a FWB with the guy 5yrs then you're not anything serious if that's what you're thinking. 1
CherryT Posted September 10, 2013 Posted September 10, 2013 Thinking to myself is this guy for real or just being flirtatious. I think he was being flirtatious.
Author SiaLv82 Posted September 11, 2013 Author Posted September 11, 2013 Thank you, I agree as well. We both had two beers each, definitely not enough to be intoxicated, but maybe enough just to loosen up. I wasn't seeing the relationship potential during the night either. Our interests are the same yet what makes up our characters are very very different. I still wanted the call though lol. I suppose no one likes the idea of being just a one time first date regardless.
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