ChatroomHero Posted September 12, 2013 Posted September 12, 2013 Did you even read the OP and what the she wrote and compared it to what ninja wrote? I see the bs a mile away, so does Ninja, so does OP So for having to spell it out for you.... OP asked the guy shes dating to hang out with her (in womanese). Its his job as a "man" to say yes or no... not put the ball back in her court Its simple, yes or no, not call me tomorrow. If I am dating someone and they ask me to hang out the next day and I like the person, I am either going to say yes, great idea or no I have a lot of work to catch up on. I am not going to string her along with call me tomorrow bs Ok, having to spell it out for you... Saying , "Its his job as a "man" to say yes or no" is about as immature a view as you can have unless you have. "Its simple, yes or no, not call me tomorrow." ...seriously, if you always know what your schedule and work is going to be like on Monday, you must have a 9-5 banker job or else don't work or date a lot. I had tentative plans for Monday with a gf, found out at 5pm I had to cancel. We made quasi-plans for this coming Saturday, she may not make it to a party I am going to because she has an earlier party. We are both busy. We have lunch once a week, guess which day? Your guess is as good as mine, because we'll plan for one day and have to change it to the next as work and life dictates. The difference is we trust each other and are adult enough to know it's not a flake issue and respect each other's personal responsibilities. Just because someone does not fully commit to meeting up on one night does not mean a single thing. If you think that, good luck, you will never be successful in dating until you mature.
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