loops337 Posted September 9, 2013 Posted September 9, 2013 hi In short : I have some girl on facebook and I want to ask her out. I first met her two years ago from friends and we talked a little, not something special, without purpose. We live in the same neighborhood so I saw her few times, but we never talked more then 3 min. I just want to meet her face to face to talk to her (real conversation) and maybe ask her out. But here is the problem: I can only talk to her on facebook, and I can't accept "no" on facebook. she doesn't know me well, so its not a real "no". I will try to meet her in another way instead of move on. If she says "no" face-to-face. its fine and I can move on. I need advice here :/ I think of sending her a message and just ask her out (or just to walk&take , not a date) , but I'm afraid she will say no. And as I said before , "no" on facebook its not good :/ thanks , btw I'm 23. (I know my English is terrible.. just ignore the mistakes )
Mliu Posted September 9, 2013 Posted September 9, 2013 rejection is part of life, as most would dread. Talk to her often and make it last more than 3 minutes. Then after a couple of chats, once she's comfortable with talking to you, just ask her if she wants to meet up.
Dallers Posted September 9, 2013 Posted September 9, 2013 Noooooo! Hooking up from Facebook is fine, set up a meet and go from there. Do not ask a girl out-out through Facebook, Text Message or Phone or any type of communication at all. Face to Face - Eye Contact - Hi, I am fantastic, you want to date me Job Done. If she rejects you. Consume that rejection and use it at the gym later that day. Leave as if nothing affected you and never speak to her again.
Author loops337 Posted September 9, 2013 Author Posted September 9, 2013 rejection is part of life, as most would dread. Talk to her often and make it last more than 3 minutes. Then after a couple of chats, once she's comfortable with talking to you, just ask her if she wants to meet up. I'm ok with rejection, just prefer not on facebook. and ofcourse I need to talk to her , but I haven't spoken with her on facebook for almost 2 years, I need a good excuse for this or it will be too much strange (and thats why I post this message).
soccerrprp Posted September 9, 2013 Posted September 9, 2013 Like any other form of OLD or dating at all, just ask her.
truth_seeker Posted September 10, 2013 Posted September 10, 2013 Tell her you saw her on your feed and wanted to see what she has been up two since you two last spoke. If she has a man, she will bring him up right away. If she senses you're trying to pick her up, and is not into you, she will mention having a man, or is taking a break from dating. If there is no mention of her having a man at all during your conversation ask her if she would like to meet so you two can catch up.
heartshaped Posted September 10, 2013 Posted September 10, 2013 If you haven't spoken with her on FB recently, you could always just like a photo or status and then go from there with a random 'how have you been chat'.
Moe'sTavern Posted September 10, 2013 Posted September 10, 2013 If she says no on facebook, what makes you think she'd say yes if you meet her face-to-face?
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