kittykatty Posted September 9, 2013 Posted September 9, 2013 Hey I don't know if I am posting in the right section but I have a question. Last week I was out shopping with my mum and we were out in the car park when a guy approached my mum and asked if he could talk to me. She said yes and he told me that he saw me in the shopping mall and that he thought I was really pretty (that was embarrassing) anyway, we chatted for a bit and he took my number. We texted and that same day he ended up going to the same club I was in (he said he had never been before so he thought he might try it out) We ended up back at his and he told me he was bricking it because of my mum (she's not a very approachable person) but he said I was unique and he had to chat to me. We had sex, I left the next day. I left on Saturday and he texted me everyday until Monday and then nothing. I decided I would text him on Sunday because I didn't want to come across desperate and he texted the next day with one text....I am confused because he went through all that and for what ? I don't know why he is being so cold. Any ideas ? Thanks Kat
clia Posted September 9, 2013 Posted September 9, 2013 I am confused because he went through all that and for what ? I don't know why he is being so cold. He really didn't go through anything. He cold approached you, got your number, went to the club, and took you home and had sex with you. I mean, it's not like he spent weeks courting you. It was one day...and he got laid. He's a guy you met for one day. He's being cold because he's not interested in pursuing a relationship with you. This is why it is smart to not sleep with a guy the first day you meet him. Poofing like this is very normal in those circumstances. 3
365daysgone Posted September 9, 2013 Posted September 9, 2013 Seriously? You're confused? Now you know to keep you're legs closed. or do you? Why the hell would you have sex with someone so quickly? Jesus!
Imajerk17 Posted September 9, 2013 Posted September 9, 2013 This strikes me as a classic hit-and-run by a PUA. He approached you in front of your mom. What was he doing in the shopping mall anyway? I agree with the others. I already was 95% sure how this was going to end after I read "we had sex". Sorry....
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