Feeling almost like a new man

[Theman61386]

So my breakup occurred about 3 months ago, but my ex and I have not been hanging out or anything for about a month now. I feel sort of alive again. I find that I don't think about her a ton, and when I do I realize that I don't want to think of her and endure anymore pain. I find myself excited for the future, and realizing that she is not the one.

 

I also went to a psychic for kicks(who had my one friend pegged perfectly). If she is correct then my ex comes back in 3 - 6 weeks(who also prevented me from finding the one 2 years ago) wanting to get back, but as long as I turn her away, I find "the one" in the spring. Even if may not be true, it's still slightly uplifting.

 

I guess it just feels kinda nice moving forward in life and not dwelling on the past that much anymore.

[joe86]

Hurrah bet that's a great feeling. I can't wait to reach something similar with my situation!

[petall]

You're lucky then. Most of us had to suffer agonising pain for ages (and still do from time to time).

[Theman61386]

Yea, it is a pretty nice feeling, and I wish everyone could get there quickly, or there was a way to turn off emotions, lol.

 

From time to time, I still get upset at the whole thing, realizing she doesn't really care about me anymore. I guess if it's any consolation, if the psychic is right I'll be an emotional wreck in another 3 - 6 weeks, when I get another chance and have to turn it down.

[Theman61386]

I thought maybe I was close to 90%, but I still get a bit anxious when she tries to text me. Its like I don't really care much about what happened and made peace with it. I have also made peace with the fact of not talking, but still feel weird when she texts me, because I don't know if I want to be bothered. She texted me today telling me to have fun at a wedding I have this weekend.....almost like she was trying to be nice..