lorenita1984 Posted November 18, 2004 Posted November 18, 2004 I need advise.... I have a boyfriend and we have been together for two years. We are now studying in the USA. A friend of his who was also my friend but not so much because we lost contact .... well she has been calling him a lot .. she calls him every weekend and she always talks to him and reffers to him for everything for example she says "so whatt are YOU doing tonight" instead of asking what are you and your girlfriend doing? I hate her and can stand her calling him so much I know how she is ,... she is super flirty adn would not mind doing anything bad with my boyfriend ... he says she is just his friend and I undestand that... but I do not like her calling him so much.. then i told a girl that I did not like her because she calls my boyfriend a lt and she went and told her .... after that she called my boyfriend and told him about it.... pretending she was feeling very bad because I did not like her.. I know she is a liar and she is just doing it to hurt me and make me unhappy. I know this because one of her cousins once had a problem with me and since then our relationship also changed so I think she has that purpose in mind I just do not know how to make my boyfriend realize what she is doing.?
Pocky Posted November 18, 2004 Posted November 18, 2004 The more you show that it pisses you off, the more she's going to do it (if in fact she's only doing it to piss you off). If you're ambivalent about her calling your boyfriend, she may lose interest because she's no longer receiving the attention she's hoping to gain. If all she's doing is calling on the phone, then just let it go. Your boyfriend will eventually grow tiresome of chatting on the phone all the time anyway.
GirlDown Posted November 18, 2004 Posted November 18, 2004 wow, boyfriend, girlfriend, friends, cousins... sounds like there's too many people in this relationship. your boyfriend should make it clear how he feels about you to her, and that he doesn't have any interest in her that way. maybe she keeps calling because he is not exactly discouraging it, which may or may not be something to worry about.
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