BrunetteBabe1005 Posted September 9, 2013 Posted September 9, 2013 This guy will call me up crying and talks about his problems to me. It's usually about his ex and his baby, cause his ex is always manipulating and controlling him. Well I have only known him for 6 months and in the course of 6 months I have gone out with him, and he would (not all the time) Try to have sex with me, but since he works for my dad I thought it would be a bad idea to do anything sexual with him, so I figured I would just be friends with him. Well, oddly he called me up crying and said this "She has been cheating on me with this guy for a month, and I keep telling her to tell me straight up if she is dating this guy and she won't tell me" I said "I thought you guys have been broken up?" He said "Well it's kinda hard when you get out of a 3 year relationship with someone and you have a baby with them" He always expressed to me how much he hates her and he said he broke up with her a month ago when he was trying to have sex with me well over a month a ago! He always portrayed that he was single and that he hated her. So I don't understand this. He does call me up a lot to tell his problems and we do hangout periodically, but it's still weird to me. Am I being used? Does he think I don't have feelings towards him cause I never kissed him or had sex with him? Like I don't know his motives? But what does this sound like to you?
sadaggouri Posted September 13, 2013 Posted September 13, 2013 I am/was in an exact same situation, except for the fact I have a female friend and she doesn't want to have any romantic/more than friends relationship. If he just calls and remembers you whenever he is about to whine like a little girl about his problems and then just ditches you, it's time you move on. However, if he acts to you like a friend and doesn't really use you, you are friendzoned.
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