livdee Posted September 9, 2013 Posted September 9, 2013 I am thinking a lot this morning about texting my xAP with a cute text, just to see if he will respond. I guess I am just chasing the thrill that I got before when we would text. I know he will just respond politely, not give me the response i am hoping for. I know this, still, I have the urge to pick up the phone and text him... Hoping this urge gets less as the day goes and I can just keep resisting.
reddragon588 Posted September 9, 2013 Posted September 9, 2013 You won't receive the response you are looking for, I'm sorry to say. I've made this same mistake and it doesn't make you feel any better. In fact, you'll feel worse even before he responds in a way that disappoints you. If you want, post the text in the thread on the coping board where you can post instead of contacting your ex. I've used that multiple times when I'm on the edge of breaking NC and its helped a lot. 2
JDPT Posted September 9, 2013 Posted September 9, 2013 No need to self inflict more punishment. Take this creativeness you have and channel it towards you. Make this time work in your favor and find the many ways you can do to become a new and improved you. Steer clear of contacting him and understand that it will only makes matters worse. You are having a weak moment and that's essentially all it is, a weak moment, You will get through this with your head up high and understand that it was best this way. Lick your wounds and fully heal. 2
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