spacey Posted September 9, 2013 Posted September 9, 2013 I told this guy I liked him and he told me he was not ready for a relationship.Story over. I then ignored him at social events which he took major offence to.Good Lord..now why can't he understand I might choose to ignore him as I am having my feelings crushed.Anyways I realized he was majorly upset with me and tried to call him and left a VM saying - "I see you are upset and would like to explain why I ignored you..can you please call me back..sorry about that". So anyways he stops taking my calls and is extremely angry every time we meet in social circles.I then sent him 2 texts asking him why does he have to stonewall me and behave this way.We were friends to begin with and we can talk things out than acting like enemies.I went on to add - this is no way to treat a friend who is making all these efforts to reach out to you. Finally he tries to get a mutual friend involved to sort stuff out.He then comes over and asks me the exact same things in the presence of a mutual friend - "Why did you ignore me ?" I don't understand why he would involve another person and not call me directly. My friends tell me given he has anger management issues he was probably concerned he would just blow up or that I might get mad and things might get out of hand and he thus planned to involve another person as he wanted to sort things out amicably. Now he is trying to be back to being friends with me but the fact that he would choose to involve another person has completely eroded my trust in him and I don't feel good at all. How do I get around this.
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