alexjames Posted September 9, 2013 Posted September 9, 2013 A work mate of mine tried to set me up with a girl she knows a few weeks back. I'm 21 and she's 18. I really have fallen for her though. We have texted every day and met up a few times. 2 days ago I told her (via text) how much I like her and how I want to give her a kiss and hold her hand etc. She said she THINKS she likes me, and MIGHT want a relationship in the future, but she doesn't want to rush into things (understandable). But Yesterday we were in the car parked up, we were talking for an hour or so, then she put her legs over mine , then held my hand then we kissed for a few minutes, which was perfect for me, really special moment. But I text her later on asking if it meant much to her and she said she think it did but she still don't want to get in a relationship yet and she is deffo not looking for ''fun'' as she has told me if we get together she wants to wait months before anything sexual. Her mum is really strict and this girl works so it's actually really hard to ever see her. (not allowed out at night, not allowed round mine and I'm not allowed round hers, she has to get permission to ever go out etc). She told me Yesterday via text (after I told her I hope it wasn't just a one off, meaningless kiss) that I worry too much in depth sometimes and if we get together we will, if not then it doesn't matter. Is she at all interested?! I really don't know, but I really do like her so much
gaius Posted September 9, 2013 Posted September 9, 2013 You might have some hope if you pull back on the neediness a little bit. Just enjoy the fact that you got a kiss. Don't press her to make sure it wasn't meaningless. You can get girls who aren't longing for you at first if you play your cards right.
Author alexjames Posted September 9, 2013 Author Posted September 9, 2013 The only other worry I have, is that I probably won't see her this week (it's almost impossible to see her during the week) and she is out with her family next weekend. So then we will have another week where we probably won't see each other and then she is going to Turkey with family for a week, so I might go such a long time without seeing her...How can this ever work? She told me IF we were to get together she wouldn't make a decision until after her holiday...but she wouldn't have seen me for a few weeks before that decision, there's no chance :'(
Tetley Posted September 10, 2013 Posted September 10, 2013 Mate. At least she's being truthfull. She's not sure about it yet. To help your chances back off - alot. Give her chance to miss you. Certainly stop with the questions like "did it mean something?". You'll find out soon enough anyway. Asking makes you look insecure rather than passionate. Sure fire way to end this early. If your rose is growing, don't dump truck load of manure on it. Enjoy it for what it is, hope it works out for you.
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