Sasa123 Posted September 9, 2013 Posted September 9, 2013 My ex (who broke up 6 months ago) and I have been seeing each other the last two weeks. I've just been moving to his town, and he contacted me. Last Sunday we talked about the two of us, and he said he wasn't in love with me, but he wished he was and he had feelings, but not IN-love-feelings. We decided not to see each other because he thought maybe it was because it was too soon after the old relationship. BUT then I wrote me on Wednesday that he had thought about it, and how could he figure out if it was something, if we couldn't see each other? We met the same night and it was nice and with no expatations. This time we decided to start slowly and see where it'll take us. He said he wanted to see me all the time, and he thought a lot about me. This Saturday we met again. He invited me to a mini-concert with some of his friends, and then afterwards we went to the cinema. He went home with me and we started kissing, and he ended up sleeping at my place. We didn't had sex, but it was only because I kept saying no. The next morning, I told him I needed some time alone. He was annoyed and sad but understood. He keep telling me, he has feelings but doesn't get the butterflies when he sees me. Is this a lost cause? I told him I would contact him in some weeks, and then start slowly to see if the butterflies would come. He thinks its a good plan aswell.
shymsalabim Posted September 9, 2013 Posted September 9, 2013 The question is do you really want to be with someone who isn't sure about his feelings for you? I'm glad you didn't sleep with him and asked for some time apart. If anything will work in getting his feelings back to being in love, its knowing that youre not there waiting for him to make up his mind. Don't allow him the upper hand just because he knows you still want to be with him, but make sure he knows that you have options and your life won't end without him.
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