Stay Posted September 9, 2013 Posted September 9, 2013 So this girl I've been seeing for a month or two has recently received contact from her ex again asking to get back. Now they've only been together for about half a year so although their relationship isn't that strong, there's more there than what I've developed with her. So in the end I have a feeling she's going to get back with him to give it another try, seems like she's not ready for a relationship in my eyes. Anyways what I told her is it's all your decision, each one has their own consequences but whichever you choose, pick the right one for you to be able to put your whole effort into it. I'm not going to be around and wait for her or anything. Was this the correct way to go? I didn't want to pressure her to decide but I pretty much let do what she wants, that way she cannot blame anyone but herself. I'm not going to sit here and wait for her, I'm still going to enjoy my single life and get to know people. But if it happens to rekindle in the future I'd like her to be more stable before jumping in. We really hit it off so it's a little difficult to let it go but I don't want to be a rebound or a safety net. Hopefully I'm having my thoughts straight, what do you guys/girls think about this? Am I handling this correctly or is there some faults in my thinking?
madjac74 Posted September 9, 2013 Posted September 9, 2013 good grief! Save yourself a ton of grief and just completely move on!
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