Facebook

[TB Rhine]

Figured this could act as a sort of general repository for Facebook-related questions and observations, seeing as how that's where most of us do the majority of our socializing these days!

 

First up: say you meet a girl, have a brief interaction with her, then add her on Facebook. Over the next couple days, you notice she's not responding to you very often; you also realize that you've probably been messaging, commenting, and Liking things on her page a bit too often and whatnot. Is it best to just back it off, or should you acknowledge that you made a bit of a blunder and apologize before trying to proceed?

[ja123]

Don't apologize. Just un-friend her.

[nescafe1982]

Guys who message/like/interact with me too much on FB annoy me, especially if they are basically strangers.

 

I'd back off and stop interacting with her on FB. If you want to pursue her, do it in real life, never on Facebook.

[ThisGal]

You're cramming her space. She's not interested. Do as the first poster said and unfriend her.

[madjac74]

You are stalking her. Get off of facecrack

[pyramid]

Just back off. I don't friend people I'm dating.

[90s kid]

Unfriend her. If she's not responding to your messages, she's not interested.

[MomsSpaghetti]

OP, I felt awkward just reading your original post, especially coupled with the fact that I can tell by your avatar that you're older than high school and college (which is where social media is geared towards). I'm just being honest here.

 

I think a lot of people who get a Facebook account go through a phase where they try to use it as a way to flirt, fiend for attention and embellish the presentation of their life. Later they realize how pathetic they're being. It's a good sign that you're starting to realize the flirting isn't yielding positive results.