bentleychic Posted September 10, 2013 Posted September 10, 2013 I had a similar, but less extreme reaction to first seeing my boyfriend naked. He has a great frame and is tall, and looks great in clothes. I love his style and the way he carries himself. He does however, have a gut and is generally soft bodied. I remember seeing his jelly belly and being surprised - he did not look as good naked as I had anticipated. However, he screwed me senseless and my sexual attraction toward him increased tenfold. His weight has fluctuated over the years, but to me, he has always been the most attractive man that I have ever encountered. He may be chubby and hairy, but he can shoot me a look that makes me week at the knees to this day. hahaha This exactly. I don't even have to write my post now. :-p My main shock when I saw bf naked for the first time was that he was SO hairy. I used to not like guys with body hair and swore I'd never date a guy with chest hair. hahahahaha This guy has it everywhere. Surprised me!
HappyLove Posted September 10, 2013 Posted September 10, 2013 How am I lying about that? Just because I can find a little bit of baby fat cute, or liked my ex's lil fuzz patch or faint booty stretch marks, does not mean Id be ok with hair everywhere, a whole lot of jiggle, and a body rife with stretch marks. Im ok with some imperfections, as we all have some. But I think everyone has their limit. I said earlier that I expect all women to have some cellulite and softness in their body. I do like softness in certain places. But theres a point where it because too much. Same with how many women like body hair, but if a guy gets like Robin Williams, it can be a turnoff. There are plenty people who think like you and become disabled somehow and only then do they realize how stupid this way of thought is. I've seen REAL men take care of their SO jiggly bits and all, SO who can no longer care for herself. These are REAL men. A man like you will search forever for "perfection" then you'll get old and balding not as fit or appealing as you once were and you'll be begging for anybody's jiggly bits at that point. You call it involuntary disgust. I guess she wasn't too disgusting to have sex with. How rude of you! I hope she never finds out because if she knew how you looked at her right after sleeping with her, her disgust would be much more valid than yours! 1
SteveC80 Posted September 10, 2013 Posted September 10, 2013 I hear you the more i became a workout junkie the less tolerance i had for dumpy bodies,i dont want to say i felt i was above these women but it did annoy me that i worked out hard to have the physique i had and some women i was with couldnt be bothered to ever work out,they felt their natural physique was skinny add in decent breasts and they figured they could get away with never working out because you couldnt tell by their clothes that they had a huge gut which looked weird on an otherwise skinny body.
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