Author crazybestie101 Posted September 9, 2013 Author Posted September 9, 2013 Why would you ignore everything, everyone has told you? You made your mind up and did it anyway. We'd all love to be some part of our exes life but we know how much it is going to hurt. It's like an alcoholic just drinking on the weekends, it usually doesn't work Good luck with that one. We'll see you in the future when you didn't heal fully. Sorry to be so harsh, but you are only going to mess yourself up. 24?! I'm 29! The woman took the prime years of my 20's! You got a lot of life to live yet. 24 is when I met my ex-fiancé! You'll be fine. Stay strong, delete that number, don't text. First of all I am very thankful for everyone's input here and i am NOT ignoring anything. I am back to full NC, honestly i no longer even have urge to text him now. I am trying to pay attention on school , my family and other things in life. I try to stay away from friends because one way or other , they remind my time with him.. 1
Author crazybestie101 Posted September 9, 2013 Author Posted September 9, 2013 LOVE LATE IN LIFE?!?!?! You think 24 is late in life to find love? Good god almighty I'm 27 I must be about to retire and die alone..... Dont try to over-analyze everything here. It seems to me you are thinking too much right now. Your mind is all sorts of f****d. You cant think straight because your mind doesnt know where to start or where to end. Not cool and will keep you up at night (probably already is since you wrote this so late lol). In the end, it probably doesnt really matter if he thinks you're crazy, sane, insane, whatever whatever. He probably cares about you...my ex cared about me too. Not enough to be in my life though. What is the MOST important thing right now is to NOT talk to him and focus on you. Everyday, do something for yourself. Spend an hour each day doing something only for you. Work out, go eat ice cream, go get a haircut, go hang with friends, watch some por.....um watch the news....yeah... Just dont overthink this and keep moving forward. Its not easy. No contact isnt some walk in the park, but it TOTALLY beats the alternative of keep texting him, wondering what he is doing, him getting mad at you for bothering him etc etc. Stay cool and keep coming on here when you need help. LOL? You read my mind!!! Btw , are you guy? We should totally date each other :laugh:.. LOL to entire conversation about " Age to fall in love" . Honestly , yes i know i overthink lot of situations , i have made my mind somewhere. But i no longer have urge to reach out to him any more. I am going to continue NC , i know its not easy but so far its helping me one way other. I totally do everything you said here like " Work out, go eat ice cream, go get a haircut, go hang with friends, watch some por.....um watch the news....yeah..." Oh yeah.. As i said i didnt act insane and not planning on doing it . Just keeping my sanity while taking one step at time 1
Ireallydontknow Posted September 10, 2013 Posted September 10, 2013 LOL? You read my mind!!! Btw , are you guy? We should totally date each other :laugh:.. LOL to entire conversation about " Age to fall in love" . Honestly , yes i know i overthink lot of situations , i have made my mind somewhere. But i no longer have urge to reach out to him any more. I am going to continue NC , i know its not easy but so far its helping me one way other. I totally do everything you said here like " Work out, go eat ice cream, go get a haircut, go hang with friends, watch some por.....um watch the news....yeah..." Oh yeah.. As i said i didnt act insane and not planning on doing it . Just keeping my sanity while taking one step at time Watching the "news" has helped so much, well some nights it hasn't.
Author crazybestie101 Posted September 11, 2013 Author Posted September 11, 2013 Watching the "news" has helped so much, well some nights it hasn't. So NC is still on but i kinda start missing my EX like every moment. Reason being that randomly 2 months ago i met one guy , we didnt interact much but on facebook once in while. Havent actually met his in person , just randomly became FB buddies lol . Now we talk almost everyday , and that too most stupidest things in world , we would imagine what it would be like to work in same place ( he lives in another state) . All sorta random stuff. One way or other he expressed that he want to meet me in future. From all this people around me thinks that he is INTO me and has crush on me. I TOTALLY dont want to believe it because i still miss my EX and so want to get back together with him . Everyday after i am done speaking to this new guy just as a friends , i feel how this guy is different than my EX and things can never be soo good and fun with this new guy. Weird enough sometimes i feel like i am cheating my ex by talking to this new guy. I think I should just do my things rather than looking around if i want to get back together my ex.. So stuck here .. In midst of all this , i feel like i want to reach out to my EX and let him know how after meeting this new guy i realized about lots of things such as my love for my ex. .. Please dont be harsh ..i need some advice..
Author crazybestie101 Posted September 14, 2013 Author Posted September 14, 2013 Time is your best friend right now. And honestly, I think reestablishing a friendship once you have no desire for him at all is good. But if it happens before you are truly ready it is emotional suicide. NC started on 18 aug with one text in between but back to full NC now. Its weekend today , feel so tempted to contact my ex at moments. Dieing inside so much , hopeless at times. Thinking how can he not feeling same urge as i do. I know if i contact him he will reply . But its useless and i dont want to initiate it all time. Then i think of hard times he has given me and that makes me more determined of never reaching out to him , atleast for few months. Think that i will only answer if he messages me . I am sure atleast once he will wonder what i am upto if i continue this NC for few months. Exams are coming up next week , all i do is think about what he is upto and when it will best time to talk to him and let him know how i feel. Its long distance so i didnt even seen him in 5 months. Many times i feel like he is in my phone , he comes online but i cant speak to him.. What a misery this love has brought!
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