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Guys, have you ever dated a girl who was just "going through the motions"?


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Two girls I've dated previously. Obviously neither worked out.

 

 

 

Girl A: Rarely initiated contact. Sometimes was difficult to get ahold of. Was never too enthusiastic about "us". Lasted 6 months. Attractiveness (I feel this is relevant) was about an 8/10. If she didn't have "plenty" of time (IE like 4-6 hours) wouldn't go on dates.

 

 

 

 

 

Girl B: Wrote me frequent, lengthy texts. Very eager to go on dates. Would squeeze in seeing me in between her obligations. Lasted about 2 months. Girl was a solid 9/10.

 

 

 

 

Point is, I never really understood why someone like Girl A would even bother seeing me if she wasn't really into me. Have you guys ever experienced this contrast?

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Simply:

 

A Liked having you around as a back up and for entertainment when bored.

 

B Was game on.

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Yeah and the minute I suspected it I cut things off.

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Who cares about Girl A when Girl B was more interested + more attractive :laugh::p

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Who cares about Girl A when Girl B was more interested + more attractive :laugh::p

 

Well yeah but Girl B ain't easy to come by. When it ended I felt that in the morning.

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Why did Girl B end it? She was so enthusiastic.

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Yeah I've been used as the time filler/stepping stone guy before several times. Girl who brought me to this site was the last one as I no longer accept such agreements.

 

If after the first few outings a girl doesn't initiate or communicate with me as much as I do her I either stop talking to her or relegate her to a piece of ass.

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