nyny123 Posted September 8, 2013 Posted September 8, 2013 I have been talking to this man through a mobile dating site. He seems sweet and believes in love at first sight but I don't. I only been chatting with him for 4 days and he already called me his wife to be, my love, my dear, says he will show me true love, etc. He seems very sweet but I feel in away he's moving abit to fast and he seems anxious to meet me. I just want to take my time to get to know him first before meeting. I do not want to get hurt like I did in the past.
ThisGal Posted September 8, 2013 Posted September 8, 2013 (edited) He's crazy. What a complete turn off. Coming off awfully strong for just 96 hours. Don't bother wasting anymore time on him. He hasn't even met you in person and he's talking all that mumbo jumbo. Who knows how many other women on that mobile site he's spewing the same words to. Don't fall for that crap. Don't even think of meeting him in person. He's scary. Ignore him for now on. Block his possessive butt. Edited September 8, 2013 by ThisGal 5
Dallers Posted September 8, 2013 Posted September 8, 2013 He's crazy. What a complete turn off. Coming off awfully strong for just 96 hours. Don't bother wasting anymore time on him. He hasn't even met you in person and he's talking all that mumbo jumbo. Who knows how many other women on that mobile site he's spewing these same words to. Don't fall for that crap. Don't even think of meeting him in person. He's scary. Ignore him for now on. Block his possessive butt. Lol. Seriously P**sing myself here it is like a constant rant moving from one post to the next. Hahaha. Mind you 4 days is quite a long time when you say it as 96 hours.... Seriously OP be very cautious on dating sites and weed out people like this. Without question or a doubt. 3
Joyvke Posted September 9, 2013 Posted September 9, 2013 That sounds very unhealthy and creepy to be honest.... Love at first sight is one thing, but the other things is waaaaay too fast. Be careful!
Author nyny123 Posted September 9, 2013 Author Posted September 9, 2013 I will be extra cautious and like the other answers I should stop talking to him. He does sound creepy and it is scary! I am talking to another man and he's not even moving fast as this guy!
ThisGal Posted September 9, 2013 Posted September 9, 2013 I will be extra cautious and like the other answers I should stop talking to him. He does sound creepy and it is scary! I am talking to another man and he's not even moving fast as this guy! Good! As the saying goes, slow and steady wins the race.
Joyvke Posted September 9, 2013 Posted September 9, 2013 I will be extra cautious and like the other answers I should stop talking to him. He does sound creepy and it is scary! I am talking to another man and he's not even moving fast as this guy! Yea deffo go for the other one. The other one is just too creepy . Good luck!
HappyLove Posted September 9, 2013 Posted September 9, 2013 These are what you call red flags OP. RUN! 1
loveandstuff Posted September 9, 2013 Posted September 9, 2013 He is moving very fast and if I were you, I would stop talking to him. However, you could approach him about the fact that his actions are bugging you. You could let him know you are uncomfortable with how fast he is moving and see if you notice a change. I would maybe stick with the other guy that you are talking to and see how that goes.
Author nyny123 Posted September 9, 2013 Author Posted September 9, 2013 Great advice. I did let him know it was making me uncomfortable and want to take my time to get to know him. So far he has stopped, lets see how this goes
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