SeanAdams Posted September 8, 2013 Posted September 8, 2013 (edited) so my story with this girl is too long so im just gonna cut to the chase , sorry if its still kinda long! so i've known her for 5 years and there was always chemistry between us , about 2 months ago she came to me and said i miss you and i cant forget about you and i said the same, so we went in a relationship but for some reasons we broke up after a month( beacuse of her issues with her mother) and i gotta say i dated lots of girls before her but never had the right feeling for them , but with her it was all different , i felt really good, after the break up i was devastated , couldnt get her out of my mind in anyway and still cant . after a month i saw her at a party , the night she texted me . we went on and on. it was about some time that i had realized i've fallen for her so i told her that i love her that night(she said this when we were together but not me) and almost said all the things i had kept from her and she did the same. i knew she still had feelings for me cuz she also said some thing like she kissed a guy she liked after me but didn't feel a thing cuz she realized she didnt have that good feeling while kissing me with him . but at th end of our conversation she said she doesn't have the same feeling for me cuz shes been through alot after me and was tired of life in general. i knew she was kinda lying and was making a big deal out of it after that night she started texting me alot and talking like i was her buddy , like talking about a vacation and sometimes even about us . girls who have no feelings towards someone dont do this , right?! so i was like this girl still likes me and i do too but she just cant show it cuz she's been through alot . we texted like this for like 3 days . and i didn't like it cuz she was treating me like her girlfriends so i called her and said i do love you and i do like talking to you and i know you dont feel the same way about me anymore but this has turned into a game , and i see no point in talking to you when nothing's gonna happen . i would've liked this if we where together i don't like being a toy that she puts somewhere for sometime and then gets back to play with it(although i know she wasnt trying to do that) . i did this cuz you never know what you have till you've lost it and i want her to feel my empty place so she tries to get back to me cuz i now she loves me. you might say how do u possibly know , i just know cuz she has acted like it since we broke up and dont know how to explain it really even now that i read this i see i havent explained it good enough but i dont know how to say it better . so do you think i did the right thing ? whats your comment on our situation ? Edited September 8, 2013 by SeanAdams
esteem-jam Posted September 9, 2013 Posted September 9, 2013 Sounds like classic *nice guy`s troubles*. Except that you said you dated a lot of girls before... still, here it went into some bad route. Reading this gave me mildly sick feelings. I think I can relate. I think you did the right thing by distancing yourself. Trust your gut, and its good that you did ;p Lets see what others have to say.
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