Aicha Posted September 8, 2013 Posted September 8, 2013 i just got an email from my ex after 5 years. he was my first love. i have absoslutely no feelings for him at all now. he is nobody to me. he emailed me 2 years ago also but i ignored. today he said ''Hi, I forgot to do one last thing ... Thanks for everything that we have shared... Bless you...'' I will not reply. but please share your stories if you are a man and contacted ur ex after years, or if you are a woman and had an ex BF contacts you after years. is there anyone whwo thinks i should reply?
Dallers Posted September 8, 2013 Posted September 8, 2013 Yuck, gives off such beta signals. It works both ways though OP if I saw that message as a man I would be no different. Although why would you ask others opinions on if you should reply, a moment ago you were 100% sure you would not
Author Aicha Posted September 8, 2013 Author Posted September 8, 2013 the only reason i think people might tell me to reply is to let him move on. then he can leave me alone for good. he does not seem to have closure for some reason. my pity on him. on other hand he is no1 to me ..i dumped him for a good reason.
Dallers Posted September 8, 2013 Posted September 8, 2013 the only reason i think people might tell me to reply is to let him move on. then he can leave me alone for good. he does not seem to have closure for some reason. my pity on him. on other hand he is no1 to me ..i dumped him for a good reason. Then you have no need to reply then and no need to ask others opinions. Replying will give him hope and boost his ego. Nothing else will come from it. Just be 100% sure that YOU do not actually want to reply and are in denial. Why else would you post here?
Author Aicha Posted September 8, 2013 Author Posted September 8, 2013 Then you have no need to reply then and no need to ask others opinions. Replying will give him hope and boost his ego. Nothing else will come from it. Just be 100% sure that YOU do not actually want to reply and are in denial. Why else would you post here? i am looking for others experiencesd also, has other people had exes contact them after years of no contact? i have many exes. some i have heard from after a month, some i have yet to hear from. its flattering. but i never ever ever get back with exes. esp the one from 5 years ago. yuck yuck yuck i was only asking for opinions not advice for me
Dallers Posted September 8, 2013 Posted September 8, 2013 i am looking for others experiencesd also, has other people had exes contact them after years of no contact? i have many exes. some i have heard from after a month, some i have yet to hear from. its flattering. but i never ever ever get back with exes. esp the one from 5 years ago. yuck yuck yuck i was only asking for opinions not advice for me Enjoy your ego boost. Replying will just hand back the the big shiny control stick. His aim by contacting you is to get your attention. He is probably single, bored and looking for a quick easy time with someone he has already slept with. A man's brain believes that getting it on with an ex is easier because they have already been there and done that and so we assume that they know the goods are worth coming back for. We are very simple minded when it comes to chasing after ex's and ignore the main principle of a woman which is never to look easy, and always stay in control and most of all keep your dignity. We don't care for any of them, we just want sex.
ThisGal Posted September 8, 2013 Posted September 8, 2013 Funny, I had an ex contact me after 5 years also at the beginning of this year. I replied to his text only because I didn't know who it was. He went on to say how much he missed me and how good I was to him and he will always remember me. I told im I'd get back to him and never did. I was no longer interested as well as in a relationship. I decided to look him up on Facebook and see he's married with a newborn Ugh. Anyway, continue to ignore his text messages. I'm glad I did.
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