Dallers Posted September 9, 2013 Posted September 9, 2013 She laid there like a rock too...is there a chance that she didn't want any? Or is that still highly unlikely? I kissed her on the way home..does that not count for anything? Stop beating yourself up by talking about it! Wait....its us who keep talking about it.... You gotta admit it is a brilliant post though. You are the man seriously. Hm - there are a lot of guys like you on this page... Just because you disagree with something others say and/or you have different experiences and/or less success with dating (hence the alpha male comment) you don't have to be a childish prick about it. If not ****ing a girl and then getting her back has been impossible for you - fine. For some other guys it isn't. The world's a big place with a whole lot of very different people out there. Start experimenting/learning to get better instead of imposing your successes/failures on others just because they have/keep happening to you... Chill out winston. Take a joke.
Author Drewx2 Posted September 9, 2013 Author Posted September 9, 2013 She was waiting for you to do something... regarding the kiss afterword..did it not matter? She kissed me back pretty aggressively.
pteromom Posted September 9, 2013 Posted September 9, 2013 That is not how women work. One will be along to confirm shortly that when a guy allows her into his bed and then rejects her and pussies out it is game over. The 'no' you are refering to happens on about a 1/999999999999999 ratio. Are you a woman? I am. And I sadly admit that in my younger days, a guy rejecting me led to me clamoring for any attention he'd give me. I still say it is worth a try to give it another shot.
Atem Posted September 9, 2013 Posted September 9, 2013 Stop beating yourself up by talking about it! Wait....its us who keep talking about it.... You gotta admit it is a brilliant post though. You are the man seriously. Chill out winston. Take a joke. I am - waiting on a proposal to be sent back to me and shooting the **** with you on here. Btw - my name is Willard
pteromom Posted September 9, 2013 Posted September 9, 2013 She laid there like a rock too...is there a chance that she didn't want any? Or is that still highly unlikely? I kissed her on the way home..does that not count for anything? She may have been waiting for you to make a move. If she was in bed with you, she wanted SOMETHING. We don't get into bed with a guy if we don't want him (at least, not without giving the "we aren't having sex" speech first).
Dallers Posted September 9, 2013 Posted September 9, 2013 Are you a woman? I am. And I sadly admit that in my younger days, a guy rejecting me led to me clamoring for any attention he'd give me. I still say it is worth a try to give it another shot. Last time I looked....no. But anything is possible if you have enough money.
pteromom Posted September 9, 2013 Posted September 9, 2013 Last time I looked....no. But anything is possible if you have enough money. True dat. I wasn't there to see the interaction between OP and this girl, but since she kissed him after this incident, I say he hasn't blown his chance yet. 1
Dallers Posted September 9, 2013 Posted September 9, 2013 I say he hasn't blown his chance yet. So many possible jokes from this comment but I am being childish enough tonight. It is nice of you to give the lad hope but there is no hope no matter how much we would like to see OP return and correct his mistake its long overdue. But OP take satisfaction in knowing that you have entertained numerous people on this forum with your story. We all think your great! 1
pteromom Posted September 9, 2013 Posted September 9, 2013 It is nice of you to give the lad hope but there is no hope no matter how much we would like to see OP return and correct his mistake its long overdue. OK, OP... now it is up to you to go try again with her so we can figure out who is right. Please update!
Author Drewx2 Posted September 9, 2013 Author Posted September 9, 2013 (edited) OK, OP... now it is up to you to go try again with her so we can figure out who is right. Please update! we're long distance now, so unless I send her a message it's over. Unfortunately, to say what I'd have to say, this message would most likely come across as creepy. orrr.....I could go visit my friend who lives near her, get drunk & send her some dirty texts. JK, kindof. Either way i'd ruin my chances. But hey, sometimes i think it's better to have a 0% chance than a 1% chance It's almost like i'd rather her be angry with me than see me as a dumb little puppy dogg. Edited September 9, 2013 by Drewx2
mtber75 Posted September 9, 2013 Posted September 9, 2013 Don't worry it happens to the best of us LOL. Actually girls may appreciate that your being tender and give you another shot at it so I wouldn't worry too much!
Dallers Posted September 9, 2013 Posted September 9, 2013 Don't worry it happens to the best of us LOL. Actually girls may appreciate that your being tender and give you another shot at it so I wouldn't worry too much! Sympathetic Sex. That does not sound awkward or anything.
Author Drewx2 Posted September 9, 2013 Author Posted September 9, 2013 Don't worry it happens to the best of us LOL. Actually girls may appreciate that your being tender and give you another shot at it so I wouldn't worry too much! haha....no it doesn't. The best of us are getting f***ed
pteromom Posted September 9, 2013 Posted September 9, 2013 Either way i'd ruin my chances. But hey, sometimes i think it's better to have a 0% chance than a 1% chance It's almost like i'd rather her be angry with me than see me as a dumb little puppy dogg. I disagree with you about the chances thing. And rather than viewing yourself as a dumb little puppy dog, you could also look at it as you are a man who takes what you want. It's all in the thinking behind the trying. 1
Author Drewx2 Posted September 9, 2013 Author Posted September 9, 2013 I disagree with you about the chances thing. And rather than viewing yourself as a dumb little puppy dog, you could also look at it as you are a man who takes what you want. It's all in the thinking behind the trying. but in the end it makes you look the same? right? How do I let her know that I'm a "man that takes what I want" and not a "desperate loser"?
Atem Posted September 9, 2013 Posted September 9, 2013 but in the end it makes you look the same? right? How do I let her know that I'm a "man that takes what I want" and not a "desperate loser"? By ****ing her when she's lying next to you naked... Shoot her a straight message - no dumb confessions or anything - just something about wanting to see her again. Short and to the point. If she says yes, figure out the specifics and make it happen. If she says no - next 2
Author Drewx2 Posted September 9, 2013 Author Posted September 9, 2013 but in the end it makes you look the same? right? How do I let her know that I'm a "man that takes what I want" and not a "desperate loser"? Actually, I can probably answer that: Be Handsome.. Be Attractive.. and Don't Be Unattractive.
pteromom Posted September 9, 2013 Posted September 9, 2013 How do I let her know that I'm a "man that takes what I want" and not a "desperate loser"? Be confident in yourself and what you have to offer. Make bold moves. Don't jump back as if you are burned at perceived rejections. 1
Author Drewx2 Posted September 9, 2013 Author Posted September 9, 2013 (edited) By ****ing her when she's lying next to you naked... Shoot her a straight message - no dumb confessions or anything - just something about wanting to see her again. Short and to the point. If she says yes, figure out the specifics and make it happen. If she says no - next "I want to see you again, but I don't want to be friends." hows that? can anyone make it sound better? Edited September 9, 2013 by Drewx2
pteromom Posted September 9, 2013 Posted September 9, 2013 Actually, I can probably answer that: Be Handsome.. Be Attractive.. and Don't Be Unattractive. LOL. Nope. Some handsome guys are desperate puppy dogs, and some conventionally unattractive guys are "take what I want" men. 1
pteromom Posted September 9, 2013 Posted September 9, 2013 "I want to see you again, but I don't want to be friends." hows that? can anyone make it sound better? Just "I want to see you again." is enough. The not wanting to be friends is implied. 1
Author Drewx2 Posted September 9, 2013 Author Posted September 9, 2013 "I want to see you again, but I don't want to be friends." hows that? can anyone make it sound better? or better yet "I want to see you again" 1
Dallers Posted September 9, 2013 Posted September 9, 2013 OP seriously that message will land you in emotional breakdown when she ignores you or even worse texts back saying that she thinks you are a creep. Even as a man I wouldn't be got at that easily I dunno what planet you lot are on but any girl who thinks she is worth something does not give it up just like that. For all you know she may have a boyfriend now or be seeing someone who does not mess around when being offered the goods so why would she go back to an awkward situation like that out of the blue when she was there before and you didn't make the move?!. She wouldn't. Stop dreaming. Move on.
Author Drewx2 Posted September 9, 2013 Author Posted September 9, 2013 Just "I want to see you again." is enough. The not wanting to be friends is implied. How would it come across? Dallers is convinced that it is way out of line...I trust him but I need a 2nd opinion.
Author Drewx2 Posted September 9, 2013 Author Posted September 9, 2013 (edited) OP seriously that message will land you in emotional breakdown when she ignores you or even worse texts back saying that she thinks you are a creep. Even as a man I wouldn't be got at that easily I dunno what planet you lot are on but any girl who thinks she is worth something does not give it up just like that. For all you know she may have a boyfriend now or be seeing someone who does not mess around when being offered the goods so why would she go back to an awkward situation like that out of the blue when she was there before and you didn't make the move?!. She wouldn't. Stop dreaming. Move on. “I don’t regret the things I’ve done, I regret the things I didn’t do when I had the chance.” Edited September 10, 2013 by Drewx2 1
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