dare4u Posted September 8, 2013 Posted September 8, 2013 I get to know one woman.We are together since 4 months.We meet mostly on weekand or sometime on weekdays..We chat daily on Whatsup.We also go to disco and other places to hang-out.When we meet,we spend time atleast 2hr -4 hrs.Two Times ,i was drunk and told about my feeling to her :-''Your smile is beautiful. To meet you, i can travel thousands miles.When i see you,i forget all my pain.If you hate me,i just want to remember me and blalabla''. She told me you told all this.I told i dont know ,i was drunk.After that she told me '' We are friends''.I was also happy and told:-' Ofcourse 'We are''. And again,we went to club and i was little bit drunk told all what i like about her..And she knows that..She wanted to know more about her what i think,about her nature and beauty when i was in club.After that we,were sitting outside and eating same Lollypop .I dont know its common in Friends.I marked many times she see at my Lips but i m shy,thinking if i do something i will loose her even though i have feeling for her. She allows me to touch.I just kissed her on cheeks .We have speak about our dreams and where we want to travel.We have cooked together ,dance and talked.I have seen little tears in her eyes. After all these,she has not reduce contace with me.She knows i love her. I Kissed her last weekand.After kissing we talked and took photos.She didnt refused me to kiss.I dont know she likes me or love me.I gave her letter in which i wrote what i feel for her and she was crying and told me she will answer.This weekand we couldnt meet .I told her i want to meet her but she told she is busy with studies and told to meet next weekand. Does she has feelings for me after KISS?Does this kiss led me closer to her?Do she have feeelings for me?Shall i stop to contact her to see if she miss me? Please suggest me.
ThisGal Posted September 8, 2013 Posted September 8, 2013 (edited) Oh boy. Man I can't stand men who talk in Romeo and Juliet lingo; forced poetry to me. "To meet you, i can travel thousands miles.When i see you,i forget all my pain.If you hate me..." Just stop! Well she received your letter, give her time to respond. The letter was obviously heartfelt since she cried after reading it. If the feelings are mutual she'll let you know. It's good that you two are friends, good relationships are built on friendships. Just give it time. She said she'll meet next weekend. And please stop focusing on the kiss. She didn't reject the kiss so that's somewhat a sign she liked it. Edited September 8, 2013 by ThisGal
Dallers Posted September 8, 2013 Posted September 8, 2013 So....after reading all that it comes down to the fact that she is busy this weekend and wants to meet you next weekend? And you are considering leaving her because she is busy? Have I missed something? Also whatever you said when you were drunk was not poetry and even real poetry personally makes me want to puke, poor drunken poetry is just funny so she probably didn't care as girls like a guy who makes them laugh Love?! noooooo. Interest and potential, sure!
Author dare4u Posted September 8, 2013 Author Posted September 8, 2013 About drunken poetry things ,was 3 weeks before in club.After saying all these that she didnt stop to contact me..We met eachother still.I was shy to kiss her even she gives me sign.Last weekand i kissed her and she was sleeping on my shoulders and talked a bit and later took photos.She asked me about letter if i brought for her because she wants to know what i feel for her..I gave her when she was leaving home and was crying becuase i wrote our memories and what i feel for her and told to reply. .During weekand we talked on whatsup.This weekand i wanted to tell her that i love her but she told she is busy and told to meet her house next weekand. Also told me that your letter is safe at her house. I am thinking to stop to contact her to see if she miss me..Actually,i want to tell her asap that i love her.I cant wait to tell this.
Dallers Posted September 8, 2013 Posted September 8, 2013 About drunken poetry things ,was 3 weeks before in club.After saying all these that she didnt stop to contact me..We met eachother still.I was shy to kiss her even she gives me sign.Last weekand i kissed her and she was sleeping on my shoulders and talked a bit and later took photos.She asked me about letter if i brought for her because she wants to know what i feel for her..I gave her when she was leaving home and was crying becuase i wrote our memories and what i feel for her and told to reply. .During weekand we talked on whatsup.This weekand i wanted to tell her that i love her but she told she is busy and told to meet her house next weekand. Also told me that your letter is safe at her house. I am thinking to stop to contact her to see if she miss me..Actually,i want to tell her asap that i love her.I cant wait to tell this. You want to stop contacting her to make her miss you, ie game playing. But you also want to tell the same girl who you intend to play with that you love her?! Seriously. Do not use the L word at all in my personal preference I always wait for confirmation from the girl that she loves me as much as I love her and that what we have is worth confirming in a word. In your situation total no go. Just stay in touch with her and wait for next weekend keeping things nice and simple and less of the drunken gumf and certainly no L word. 1
Author dare4u Posted September 8, 2013 Author Posted September 8, 2013 Thanks.I really lover her.I never looked her at that way or tried to take advantage of her.I never felt this for anyother women before.She gave me braclet from her hands.I am thinking to give her gift like earing and Digital camera (she loves photography). Is this good idea?
ThisGal Posted September 8, 2013 Posted September 8, 2013 You said you wrote how you felt for her in the letter you gave her...well why didn't tell her you loved her in that letter? You're shy so it would have helped. No, you should not ignore her. Just calm down and wait for next weekend. 1
ThisGal Posted September 8, 2013 Posted September 8, 2013 Thanks.I really lover her.I never looked her at that way or tried to take advantage of her.I never felt this for anyother women before.She gave me braclet from her hands.I am thinking to give her gift like earing and Digital camera (she loves photography). Is this good idea? If you want to give her a gift make it one item. Either the earrings or camera, but it's up to you. However, at this time I'd wait it out. Give her time to respond to your letter first when you see her next weekend. You both will be face-to-face and can express your thoughts then.
Dallers Posted September 8, 2013 Posted September 8, 2013 Thanks.I really lover her.I never looked her at that way or tried to take advantage of her.I never felt this for anyother women before.She gave me braclet from her hands.I am thinking to give her gift like earing and Digital camera (she loves photography). Is this good idea? No gifts, no love just play it cool. Girls do not need anything from a man that they are really into. Presents are for when you are a fully pledged couple. Act like the bait not the fish. 2
Author dare4u Posted September 9, 2013 Author Posted September 9, 2013 (edited) Thanks. I know but i am not able to control my heart.I am moving to new city or country and this is last month i am here.We made plan to travel together.I am just afraid to her her before its too late.I just wanted to spend time with her this last month.I know i am stupid and make mistakes and thinks always by heart.I know Actions speak more than words. Edited September 9, 2013 by dare4u
Author dare4u Posted September 9, 2013 Author Posted September 9, 2013 (edited) Hi Dallers,..i didnt msg her for 1 day and she called me and told to visit her .Any suggesstion please? Edited September 9, 2013 by dare4u
Author dare4u Posted September 14, 2013 Author Posted September 14, 2013 Hello,.We spend night .I told her i love her but she didnt told anything.I just want little love not more than that.I know she dont express her feelings by words.She was ill and i told her shall come to take care ?But now she feels better.I think sometime we are friends or more than that.We didnt spoke about relationship.I want to know whats her expectations and more.Shall i stop talking with her daily ,i mean give her some space?Do girls like taking care ?I gave her gift.She was happy.I notice what she dont have and missing.How i move our relationship further?
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