spacey Posted September 8, 2013 Posted September 8, 2013 I met a gal and this one another guy at a meet.up com event and we started hanging out.Soon she bought her best friend and she and that guy started dating and the 3 of them became a clique.Interestingly another guy started hanging out with us. I believe he started hanging out with us as he liked me.I liked him as well and continued hanging out with this group though I could never really connect with the 2 women and I felt like an outsider with the gals and the first guy being a clique. A lot of my hanging out probably had to do with this guy I liked and the other guy who would invite me to hangout with these folks but I kind of think the women secretly resented me though they would be really nice to the guy I liked. Anytime I mentioned that I did not feel welcome that guy I liked would just brush it off as my imagination as these gals were really sweet to him. The women I feel wanted to cut me off as they considered me competition. So now the guy I fancied has moved out of town and I am wondering if I should cut all my ties off with these folks ? I really feel no warmth. I am wondering if I should keep any ties with these folks just to not make it seem like I vanished the moment the guy I fancied left town but in all honesty I don't care much about the friendship of these 2 women and barely tolerate them and they are very mean to me.
CC12 Posted September 9, 2013 Posted September 9, 2013 I don't care much about the friendship of these 2 women and barely tolerate them and they are very mean to me. I think you've pretty much answered your own question here. There's no reason to continue being friends with people you don't like just to keep up appearances.
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