Grimsilence Posted September 8, 2013 Posted September 8, 2013 Hey, one night I was chilling with this girl, rite, and we kissed. But the bad thing was I had to go home, so I couldn't spend any time with her. We macked for like 5 minutes and I had to leave. A couple days later I sneaked out of my house to meet up with her and 2 friends. We chilled and the 2 friends went home. It was me and her at like 1 in the morning. We went back to her house and in her room. We talked for about 30 minutes. Then we macked, for like hours, just on and off. Then we mutually agreed to have sex. So we had sex, and before and after we did it she says she gets butterflies in her stomach when she kisses me and she wishes to be able to kiss me always but we don't like to date. So now my problem is that I told her I liked her that night and she said the same thing, but now when we talk about whats gonna happen, shes so dry? I tell her I like her but its mixed feelings but she wont ever tell me how she feels. Am I missing a clue? Or does she not like me? Please help as I have a lot of feelings for this girl and I wanna be with her. PS: She isn't like your average girl. We both smoke weed and she has been with 2 other guys that she has had sex with. But she said she never got butterflies kissing them. Only me :$ But she is dry now and wont tell me her feelings.
365daysgone Posted September 8, 2013 Posted September 8, 2013 PS: She isn't like your average girl. We both smoke weed and she has been with 2 other guys that she has had sex with. No offence but she sounds just like an average girl. 1
ThisGal Posted September 8, 2013 Posted September 8, 2013 (edited) H PS: She isn't like your average girl. We both smoke weed and she has been with 2 other guys that she has had sex with. But she said she never got butterflies kissing them. Only me :$ But she is dry now and wont tell me her feelings. Damn potheads You 'sneaked out of the house,' what are you, a teenager? If so, keep your penis in your pants and focus on school. The sex got you attached, you're just infatuated with her right now. She says she regarding other boys that she "never got butterflies kissing them. Only me." Ha yeah, OK. Nice one. She didn't feel the butterflies but still let them go all the way with her. That says a lot about her. And a lot about you. She's not really interested in you otherwise she'd make it clear. I think you both need to settle down. I can't stand teenagers screwing. Go find another hobby! Edited September 8, 2013 by ThisGal 2
Dallers Posted September 8, 2013 Posted September 8, 2013 Yeah afraid you have found yourself a bad girl as above my friend. She has 3 men on the go and likes the attention, what makes you think she has not told the other three guys she has butterflies for them too?! Of course she has. Just make sure you rubber up and be safe around her so that when she comes knocking your boys had been kept out of the party going on in her undies. Trouble is the bad girls are always the ones i am sucker for as well so i don't reckon you can just switch off and walk away so until she screws you over carry on seeing her but be safe. Do not expect feelings to be returned and you won't get hurt, she IS a pot smoking player and they do not care. 1
Author Grimsilence Posted September 9, 2013 Author Posted September 9, 2013 But the thing is she does get attached to guys. She isn't a total player she just liked a lot of guys and it was in the summer so she had total freedom. And also she opened up to me like she said she can talk to me confidently and she can fully trust me. she told me things that night she said no body knows.
ThisGal Posted September 9, 2013 Posted September 9, 2013 But the thing is she does get attached to guys. She isn't a total player she just liked a lot of guys and it was in the summer so she had total freedom. And also she opened up to me like she said she can talk to me confidently and she can fully trust me. she told me things that night she said no body knows.And??????
atomicdog Posted September 9, 2013 Posted September 9, 2013 But the thing is she does get attached to guys. She isn't a total player she just liked a lot of guys and it was in the summer so she had total freedom. And also she opened up to me like she said she can talk to me confidently and she can fully trust me. she told me things that night she said no body knows. I don't get all the negativity on this thread. Sounds like you have a good thing going. If she's telling you all this stuff, she obviously thinks of you as more than just an F-buddy. I'd say stick with her for a while. 1
ThisGal Posted September 9, 2013 Posted September 9, 2013 I say wait for next summer when she has more freedom to act promiscuous. The fall is upon us
todreaminblue Posted September 9, 2013 Posted September 9, 2013 Hey, one night I was chilling with this girl, rite, and we kissed. But the bad thing was I had to go home, so I couldn't spend any time with her. We macked for like 5 minutes and I had to leave. A couple days later I sneaked out of my house to meet up with her and 2 friends. We chilled and the 2 friends went home. It was me and her at like 1 in the morning. We went back to her house and in her room. We talked for about 30 minutes. Then we macked, for like hours, just on and off. Then we mutually agreed to have sex. So we had sex, and before and after we did it she says she gets butterflies in her stomach when she kisses me and she wishes to be able to kiss me always but we don't like to date. So now my problem is that I told her I liked her that night and she said the same thing, but now when we talk about whats gonna happen, shes so dry? I tell her I like her but its mixed feelings but she wont ever tell me how she feels. Am I missing a clue? Or does she not like me? Please help as I have a lot of feelings for this girl and I wanna be with her. PS: She isn't like your average girl. We both smoke weed and she has been with 2 other guys that she has had sex with. But she said she never got butterflies kissing them. Only me :$ But she is dry now and wont tell me her feelings. when a girl tells you that she has butterflies when kissing you.....she likes you...maybe she thinks you are using her for sex....and is building a little bit of a wall for protection that is why she isnt telling you her feelings...back off sex take it back a step continue kissing her...let her open up..be hoenst and tell erh what you want and maybe she will open up to you..thats my suggestion..you do know weed kills brain cells so maybe that is why you are both confused and acting strange..brain cells are goign "no no i wannnnna live dont kill me ill promise i be good dont smoke that bong i am going to d......" ..one hundred brain cells dead.... so you cant concentrate on what is real.......weed causes you to be different to what you are normally so is she different before pot (quieter) and are you having sex after pot....i am not judging you fro smoking pot i say the same things to people i know who smoke it who ask me for advice...they just tell me to go read a book ...)... it does kill brain cells though.. so just say no ....quote yul brenner.sigh.. ok ill stop....i wish you well....pot free wellness....smilin....byeeeeeeeee...gone...deb
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