thr1986 Posted September 8, 2013 Posted September 8, 2013 I'm in my latter 20's and dated a girl for just over a year recently. She moved across the country to be with me during that year and honestly we were seriously in love. Talked about a life together, ect... A couple of things happened where I found out she was not exactly who she said she was. She had a problem with lying and it took me about a year to realize it. She would lie about what she ha for dinner, serious pathological lying problem. It all came to a climax when I overheard her talking about me to a friend back in her hometown where she moved from to be with me. She was talking about me like I'm a terrible person and saying she wanted to leave me. I later told her I heard the conversation and asked her what he was talking about knowing that what he said about me was all total fabrications. She said she didn't know what she was saying and begged me to forgive her ect...I took about a week to myself and she reached out that whole time asking to see me, saying she loved me, ect.. I decided to leave her and simply started ignoring her. She since has moved back to where she's from and we have not spoken in 4 months. Last night I was texting someone about the situation and sent them a sarcastic message saying "I guess she's moved on to better things" . well I had been looking at my last conversation with my ex just before I sent that text and accidentally typed it into her message and sent it to her. Damn, I know. How would this make me look? Do I look bad now?
saltyfishhead666 Posted September 8, 2013 Posted September 8, 2013 I'm in my latter 20's and dated a girl for just over a year recently. She moved across the country to be with me during that year and honestly we were seriously in love. Talked about a life together, ect... A couple of things happened where I found out she was not exactly who she said she was. She had a problem with lying and it took me about a year to realize it. She would lie about what she ha for dinner, serious pathological lying problem. It all came to a climax when I overheard her talking about me to a friend back in her hometown where she moved from to be with me. She was talking about me like I'm a terrible person and saying she wanted to leave me. I later told her I heard the conversation and asked her what he was talking about knowing that what he said about me was all total fabrications. She said she didn't know what she was saying and begged me to forgive her ect...I took about a week to myself and she reached out that whole time asking to see me, saying she loved me, ect.. I decided to leave her and simply started ignoring her. She since has moved back to where she's from and we have not spoken in 4 months. Last night I was texting someone about the situation and sent them a sarcastic message saying "I guess she's moved on to better things" . well I had been looking at my last conversation with my ex just before I sent that text and accidentally typed it into her message and sent it to her. Damn, I know. How would this make me look? Do I look bad now? Why do you care what she thinks? She lied about your entire relationship, lied about you being a terrible boyfriend and person and you left her! In other news... She will probably assume your talking about another girl. 1
BigGirlPantiesOn Posted September 8, 2013 Posted September 8, 2013 bad? Tell your ego to have a seat. Who cares, really?
Author thr1986 Posted September 8, 2013 Author Posted September 8, 2013 It was just an honest mistake. But You can see im sure how it could be construed by her as an actual attempt to reach out. Like I said, it was honestly a scarcastic message accidentally sent to her. She wouldent get the scarcasisim though. as it read "I guess shes moved on to better things" Maybe if anything it just got her thinking about me again...
saltyfishhead666 Posted September 8, 2013 Posted September 8, 2013 It was just an honest mistake. But You can see im sure how it could be construed by her as an actual attempt to reach out. Like I said, it was honestly a scarcastic message accidentally sent to her. She wouldent get the scarcasisim though. as it read "I guess shes moved on to better things" Maybe if anything it just got her thinking about me again... Perhaps, maybe not. Maybe she doesn't even have your number anymore and you'll receive a text back asking who you are. Who knows, you shouldn't care. I accidentally mass text my new number to my entire phone book last week. Including my ex, his ex wife and his kids! Mistakes happen LOL
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