Combojack5 Posted September 8, 2013 Posted September 8, 2013 (edited) I'll try to keep it short. Dated a girl for about a year and a half ended bad. She dumped me and starts dating this guy a week or so after, i got pissed but really pissed And she was like leave me alone, i replied fine i'm done trying for you, she broke up with him after 4 months, then tries to get me back wich ended in me helping her trough her exams and her going cold on me, after i got my hopes up. Now after 6 months i had to organize a fun&games at our local rugiby club to attract more young people to the sport hell i had a blast, was fun and all, till i noticed this girl on the other side of the field. The girl that dumped me. My first reaction was like ''wtf are u even doing here''. I just carried on with the day but i knew damm well i was gonna get a text later from her, it was a gut feeling. And well i was right not even 2 hours after i left there, i got one ''youre a real savage when playing rugby aren't you'' i replied ''uhm its my hobby and its fun?'' next thing i get is ''you really gave those kids a good time didn't you'' i simply replied ''dont u have anything else to do then bother me'' then she starts talking about her dad and that he bought a new house and stuff i just answered but really short things like oh damm and yes i guess , etc etc At one point i got tired of it and just asked why are u even texting me, i dont even talk to you anymore... she said idk i can talk to you about anything next up i said What is the reason behind this and she said idk man i really dont and i just send this ''....?'' I'm so pissed right now, like LEAVE ME ALONE , i dont want her in my head again, i feel like going up to her tommorow and just go all caps rage in her face to stop texting me.... she texts me like once every month about the most random bull**** , during the holidays she texted me i'm going on a 10 day holiday and i replied I DON'T CARE seems like she still doesn't get it after i replied I DON'T CARE i tought i would end finnaly, i was so delighted i got it of my chest, but here i am. Should i just go up to her and tell her, cause she doesn't seem to get it via texts. i was doing so well, but no she had to **** with my head once again for the love of god do people have no respect for others anymore , is he such a slutty bitch to be like that. or is this some ****ed up way to make Her feel better by tormenting me. running around making my life a living hell each time i get a text.., Edited September 8, 2013 by Combojack5
BigGirlPantiesOn Posted September 8, 2013 Posted September 8, 2013 Who put the gun to your head to make you reply? Stop blaming her. YOU are the one who engaged with her. Remove your hands from the phone, stop texting, block her and out she goes from your head. 2
ebor Posted September 8, 2013 Posted September 8, 2013 Just be in her place, She comes back once in a life time when things are bad, or when she's desperate. Id want to be negative but Idt she wants to be with you if things are going good and idt that's good enough for anybody. That could be due to different reasons, there's no way I could know. So, I think it's simple in theory and hard in practice, Move on.
lonegirl Posted September 8, 2013 Posted September 8, 2013 Like BigGirlPantiesOn said, you choose to reply. Ignore But I understand the feeling, the urge of answering... but the best thing is to never answer when you're trying hard to move on.
carhill Posted September 8, 2013 Posted September 8, 2013 Change your contact information and move on. Care less. Great lessons in life. Good luck. Welcome to LS
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