Inner Strength Posted September 8, 2013 Posted September 8, 2013 Hello LS members! As this is my first post I would like to give something back to this wonderful community that helped me through my toughest times. I never posted before but I was reading daily for 7 months all coping threads etc. I was with my ex for 7 years. I am 27 now and she is 2 years younger than me. We broke up back in November 2012 and i can tell you I was a train wreck! Dark days that I don't want to even remember again. She left me to live her life and that she wasn't in love with me anymore etc etc. Deep down I knew that was going to happen as we were together when we were very young and basically we grew to be completely incompatible together. We also did not have anything in common and i found her to be shallow and boring. I was strong keeping no contact and after she deleted me from Facebook I then blocked her and stopped asking to learn something about her life. I have never seen her again since then and the only contact we had was her wishing me happy birthday and a simple thank you reply by me. They were no drunk texts, no drunk calls nothing! I was having a good time we my buddies every weekend and we were wasted every Saturday but i never text or called her. Don't get me wrong, I loved her very much but I have great pride and strength in me that stopped me from doing anything. The last time I was feeling like Sh*t it was in May and since then I was becoming better and better every day. I still remember her and I have lots of memories but you know what? There are just memories, past days of my life and nothing more to me. I did the usual. Kick boxing, my buddies and all and I was getting better and better every day. From the start of summer everyone saw a new me. A happier and more socializing guy and I met new and exciting people. Made new friends and starting do new things for fun. I still have the same job and I am truly happy now with my life. My life improved drastically from this July. I met a wonderful girl that we have so much in common that is creepy. I am not an ordinary guy and she is not an ordinary girl. We have been going out every weekend and we are together for hours (literally about 8 hours each date) and we never get bored of each other. We are doing new things in every date that i haven't done with anyone else. We are not officially together but we talk daily for hours and every time we are together we act as a couple. We said that we will take it slow and everything is great. I wanted to share my story here to tell you everyone... IT GETS BETTER!! And someone new exciting and even better that your ex will come into your life and change your whole world Stay strong guys and thank you all!! 3
im_thedude Posted September 8, 2013 Posted September 8, 2013 Threads like these do indeed make me feel better, as someone still knee deep in his own drama. My girlfriend dumped me over a month ago and now that sort of blind, homer love that I felt for her, despite all she did to me, has subsided. I think I'm actually on the cusp of entering the anger stage, and that's quite all right with me Glad all is well dude!
stormer1092 Posted September 9, 2013 Posted September 9, 2013 Threads like these do indeed make me feel better, as someone still knee deep in his own drama. My girlfriend dumped me over a month ago and now that sort of blind, homer love that I felt for her, despite all she did to me, has subsided. I think I'm actually on the cusp of entering the anger stage, and that's quite all right with me Glad all is well dude! I'm at the same stage you are. I don't even want to text or call my ex anymore. Nothing but negative. I don't need that **** in my life. If she wants to text me months from now fine but don't text me now.
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