Jennijful Posted September 8, 2013 Posted September 8, 2013 I have been dating this man for three months. We met online, and he asked me to be his gf a month later. He lives an hour away, works second and I work first. We were texting and talking to each other constantly up until about a week ago. We seen each other every Saturday, he would spend the night at my house. We never had intercourse, but did get really close. I explained to him that I was not ready and he said he would wait until I was ready, but each time he would still try. The last time I seen him was last Saturday, we had a great dinner and everything seemed fine.When he left on Sunday I didn't hear from him for the rest of the day and that is sooo far from his character. I also didn't:sick: hear from him on Monday. I called him on Monday and he quickly got off the phone, but he was polite. I got really scared b/c I felt neglected and like he was pulling away. We disused that a few weeks prior, b/c he sorta disappered then. I texted him on Tuesday and told him that I could no longer do this and he said ok take care. I thought he would try to work on things and not let me go so easily, but he did. He didn't contact me again, so I decided that I didn't want to let him go and texted him on Thursday and asked him to come over Sat so we can talk, he said he was good and would be out of town. I text back and told him that I did'nt want to break up and I had gotten scared. His only reply was that he would be out of town. I have not text or heard from him and we were in contact every hour since we met. I am so confused, filled with guilt and devastated. I had not dated anyone since my divorce a year ago and I didn't think I would find anyone that I would love again. I feel so cheated and lonely and I miss him terribly. He had everything that I am looking for, and he told me that he loved me last week, and now i get nothing. I am hurting so badly right now, will he forgive me or ever talk to me again
BigGirlPantiesOn Posted September 8, 2013 Posted September 8, 2013 Honey, his pulling away was his sign he was having second thoughts. Cut the victim-guilt ****. You didn't do anything wrong except react to his pull away. Stop chasing him. LET HIM ALONE. You said how you felt, now let him process it. IF he loves you and wants you, HE will chase you down. Trust that you have no control over this. Let go....and wait to see if its meant to be., 1
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