jackiedandy Posted September 8, 2013 Posted September 8, 2013 Hi all. I've come here to share my thoughts on this matter. Firstly, everyone's situation is unique, no one's situation is like the other. You can ask questions, read up on guides, and it still might not apply to your situation 100%. Does it take X months to heal? X years to reconnect? It depends on how busy you keep yourself and so many other things! However, I think attitude plays a big part in whether or not you will reconcile (for good) or not. If you are approaching your ex-partner with true confidence, they will see it. However if you have the slightest bit of fear and anxiety, they will sense that. But you can give up when you feel like giving up. If your ex is putting 10% effort in to keeping in touch with you, you do put 10% effort in keeping up with them, while keeping your options open. I don't see the harm in keeping multiple options open. Just play it one day at the time. Go with the flow. React, don't act. This is how I'm taking my current situation. Take care of yourself first. Keep an open mind. The right things will come. 2
Jenny1234 Posted September 8, 2013 Posted September 8, 2013 React, don't act. I like that one. I'm trying to do that but since I'm such a type a personality it drives me crazy on my end..and it's been going on for 4 months. Sometimes I feel like I'm playing chess
Mariposa10 Posted September 8, 2013 Posted September 8, 2013 What do you guys mean by "react, don't act"?
Jenny1234 Posted September 8, 2013 Posted September 8, 2013 Feels like a ping pong match ..... Hit the ball back..don't serve it React to your ex action ..don't initiate it 1
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